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writes:About 2 months ago my girlfiend and one of her old friends had a kinky (dirty) talk with each other just because i got real mad and some how she got mad at me because of it. I think i had a reason to be but we passed that.Last weekend my girlfriend had another talk with this guy and they ended having another one of those talks. I told her that i dont like her doing that and she was sorry but she just says it slips. What is getting me mad now is since they started having these talks he now this weekend did things that gets me mad:he gave her a kiss over the phoneher phone is messed up and she told him and he told her if you were my girlfriend i would buy you a new phone. I got mad and i tried explaining to my girl how this hurts but she was falling asleep so i just let her sleep. About 10 minutes later she sent me a message saying how she is sorry but she doesnt know why he is saying these stuff but she also said how she doesnt care if im mad at her. I told her im not mad at you but it just hurts but im not mad. She said ok, then i asked her if we could just talk about it tomorrow over the phone she replied NO and i asked if she was mad and she said yes and she doesnt care what i do. I dont understand it at all i just asked if we could talk about it. And today all day she has been mad at me still and I dont know she hasnt been treated me well. She says she isnt mad anymore but it seems like she is and when i tell her i love her she doesnt say it back.I dont know what to do with this guy or this situation.PPLLLEEEAAASSSSEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP im soooo crushed
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reader, CaliGrown09 +, writes (14 April 2009):
 I agree with Red Cherries.. when she says stuff like "gotta make sacrifices for the one you love..", she just got you right back under her spell. She didn't consider that line when she was talking with that dude..
I actually had a boyfriend who was like this.. playing mind games & what not. You can make as much excuses for her as you want, it's just your choice if you still want to continue being confused & hurt.
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reader, Red-Cherries  +, writes (14 April 2009):
Jeez... your girl is a bitch, no offense. You've got to stop grovelling after her, then she gains more power over you. Don't let her treat you like a dog and just stop asking her if she's mad... If she's talking dirty with some guy, that technically counts as cheating or fooloing around. You should end things with her as she plainly told you she doesn't care. How insensitive is she to just fall asleep when you're explaining your feelings?? She seems to be happier with this other guy so just forget her and wait until someone that actually cares about your feelings comes into your life.
Good luck though.
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reader, king_spur +, writes (14 April 2009):
king_spur is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i mean she came over on Easter, she did end up saying she really didnt want to come and got in trouble for coming. I asked why are you coming then . She told me that sometimes you gotta make some sacrifices to make the one you love happy. SO that shows me she cares but confuses me more
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reader, CaliGrown09 +, writes (14 April 2009):
I think you do know what to do with this situation. You just don't want to, & of course anyone can understand that. Look at he way shes treating you. It should be about you being mad at her because she IS doing something wrong, at the end, shes turning it out on you! What kinda shi* is that? I think that just shows she doesn't really care of what you feel & about the relationship, obviously. As crushed as you are, you should end it before she crushes you even more. Hope I helped & good luck =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): sounds like she is bitchy,or maybe she expects you to trust she is not gonna cheat..but she is being stubborn she has to listen to your side too.Thats a one sided relationship.And she said she dont care.How did she say it.Did it sound like hurt or carelessness? thast how u know she gives a care about you or not.
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