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... Send *aftin a private message | | | *aftin's profile:Through the years I've made friends with people from all walks of life and I think it's this life experience that grounds me and helps put me in other peoples shoes in order to really think of advice suitable enough for them and their situation.
It's easy to tell you the black and white answer of what you should do, but sometimes those grey area's are a lot trickier than we'd like.
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I'm besotted with a female colleague
Q. Hi, I'm currently married with children, happily I must add. Intimacy has been an issue between us for a longtime and not just sex but otherwise we are very happy and good together. About a week ago through the course of work I met another woman wh...
A. 19 September 2016: I feel that the troubles in your marriage are wearing you down and you subconsciously checked out, wanting to find an alternative. This colleague is your scapegoat. They are not real feelings or love. It's simply lust. Personally speaking, love i... (read in full...)
How do I stop myself from being angry when my fiance rejects my sexual advances?
Q. How do I stop myself from being angry when my fiance rejects my sexual advances? I am a very attractive woman in my mid 20s, my fiance (who is six years older than I) and I have been together for two years. He regularly rejects my sexual advanc...
A. 26 July 2013: Have you spoken to him about it?
Sometimes men really don't realise the consequences of their actions.
If you explain to him how you never had the chance to be adventurous, that you saved yourself for him, it means that your wild days are now, wit... (read in full...)
I need some more advice with dating please!
Q. Thank you for answering my question at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-become-better-at-dating.html I can't really leave my voluntary job, as I have too many projects on the go, been there since 2007, and I enjoy it. As for the advice...
A. 26 July 2013: I don't know an awful lot about Asperger's or autism so I will apologise in advance if my advice doesn't really fit in with it. Would you ever be willing to just risk it like other guys do? Approach a girl you like, when she's alone (I find when the... (read in full...)
My questions are is it normal feeling like that because I just met him once?
Q. About three days ago I met this guy while I was on the beach. Suddenly I stated to stare at him he was very attractive , and at the same time he caught my eyes and I felt so weak my heart started to beat and I started to shake . we were just staring ...
A. 26 July 2013: Some would say this was a case of "love at first sight" OR "crush at first sight" OR "lust at first sight"
whichever relates to you, it is natural, you see someone extremely attractive, or to your taste, your response is to want that person or be w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is addicted to sports news and it's driving me insane
Q. Help. My bf is addicted to sports news. When he wakes up in the morning he has to watch and read sports news on tv, he listens to more than 5 radio stations consecutively just to hear sports news which is more or less repeatitive anyway. During the ...
A. 26 July 2013: It sounds like he may have an Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Don't take my word for it obviously, I'm no doctor. But if it's as bad as all that, then no amount of "talks" will get him to change permanently. You could give him ultimatums and what not... (read in full...)
I've found out my crush has a girlfriend and I need advice on getting over him
Q. So my crush that I've had for awhile, I think he has a girlfriend . I found out a couple days ago over social media . I was heartbroken . I'm still trying to get over it . Now I wanna make sure that I don't like him anymore after this . I don't ...
A. 26 July 2013: This isn't an easy one to answer I'm afraid lovely :/
Time heals all wounds. That is what can help right now, time to think about it all, digest it, work through it and get over it.
You could try liking another guy?? But that might complicate h... (read in full...)
Is my LDR b/f seeing a girl behind on my back who he's befriended from facebook?
Q. So Im in a long distance situation with my boyfriend/ex. We're together but not. It's hard to explain. Anyway, I'm a pretty jealous person and noticed that he befriended a girl on Facebook who lives out of state about 2 months ago. She befriended ...
A. 26 July 2013: Usually if I ever get a gut feeling with my boyfriend, I go with it and fins out as much as I possibly can.
Then I look at all the facts and be realistic about it :)
Looking at what you have put, she could have just been a random adder and th... (read in full...)
Am I just reading too much into things because I want my ex back?
Q. Hi, I came on here a few months ago, because my girlfreind dumped me after her dad got into a tragic accident and was left very badly hurt and needing help 24/7. It has been 4.5 months since the split, and we have recently been meeting up ag...
A. 26 July 2013: I think she may have just wanted her own space without the emotional demands of a relationship when her Dad had that accident. She probably also knew the new responsibilities she'd have to take on and didn't want to cause a strain on the ... (read in full...)
How can long distance relationships work?
Q. I had two failed long distance relationships. One was within the country. Other one was with the a girl from US. Here, in our area, dating and having girlfriend is consider a taboo thing. I don't like arrange marriages . So most of the time, I ...
A. 26 July 2013: LDR's are hard work, I won't lie to you. They end mainly due to not enough attention from one another. In a normal relationship you can see each other whenever you like, or at least arrange to meet up and it's easy. Whereas with LDR's, you're bo... (read in full...)
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