Are we just friends with benefits or are we more?
Q. Maybe someone can give me advise. I have a friend with benefits and I feel like I am in love with him. He has told me that he loves me too but that we are friends not bf/gf. Since the day we met we spend alsmost everyday together. He wants me to co...
A. 7 October 2008: Your relationship is extremely unbalanced. Sex is dangerously close to ruining anything you may have her in the future.
One of you must take a stand and put an end to the sex.
I have a strong aversion to the expression "friends with be... (read in full...)
She's left me because she wants a kid at 30 and didn't think I could give her that.
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years now and this year was the year I was going to ask her to marry me. All she's gone on about since January / February this year is when are you going to ask me to marry you, when are we going to have ba...
A. 7 October 2008: It sounds to me like the two of you are simply not compatible any longer. There is nothing wrong with that at this point. At least you aren't going through a divorce.
I know it likely hurts and you are feeling betrayed and even alone and empty, h... (read in full...)
I'm under 21 and can't go out for a drink with him and his friends! Shoutd I be hurt or embarrassed?
Q. My boyfriend is 39 and I am 19. Despite the age difference, we have a good relationship. We have been together almost a year. The only age related problem we have is that he doesn't want me to meet his friends because they may ask us to go "grab ...
A. 7 October 2008: I would first like to know the nature of your relationship. Although it sounds like you may be mature for 19, the question of why a 39 year old man would feel like he's at all compatible with a 19 year old woman.
The fact is, you shouldn'... (read in full...)
He asked me to get breast implants, I refused, but now I can't let go of the worry this has caused me!
Q. My boyfriend asked me to get breast implants early in our relationship, and it tore me apart because I thought he already liked the way I looked. Why get together with someone if you're going to ask them to change? All of my boyfriends in the past...
A. 7 October 2008: I will just tell you this: It sounds like you may be with an immature man that simply doesn't know what true love is. Because if he TRULY loved you, he'd be turned on if you only had one breast, regardless of its size.
Your boyfriend also sou... (read in full...)
I need suggestions on how to cope with my jealousy of his ex!
Q. hey guys my name is faith and i am having a bit of an issue. i cannot seem to get over this jealousy of one of my bf's ex girlfriends. We have been dating for a year now and im sure your thinking oh my gosh not another one of these. well my story ...
A. 7 October 2008: I think you answered your own question. It sounds to me that your OCD is taking over and causing you to doubt yourself.
Try and think of it this way. There is NO WAY you can depend on someone else to make YOU HAPPY. You must be happy with you... (read in full...)
What should I do about my relationship?
Q. Well, i need an advise, me and my boyfriend were dating about 3 years, we did argue alot over stupid staf, the last time we got in to arguement things run out of control, he was trying to hold me back from breaking staf and some how i end up at the ...
A. 7 October 2008: Well, if you are getting into physical bouts with your boyfriend which left you with a broken arm, that's a problem.
Ask yourself what you want back. Do you want the physical confrontations back? Or, do you want the happiness back?
It is i... (read in full...)
No symptoms but late period....could I be pregnant?
Q. Im 24. In the middle of august I had unprotected sex. I thought I could of been pregnant but I came on my period on 5 september. The period was a lot shorter and lighter than usual. I didnt think much of it. Now Im 4 days late for my next one. I ...
A. 7 October 2008: Technically speaking, yes, you could be pregnant. Light spotting and bloody discharge at the onset of a pregnancy could be mistaken for menstruation. I would go to the pharmacy and get a simply at home pregnancy test. FYI... If you are pregnant... (read in full...)
Snickers is great but what is life like on Mars?
Q. My fiance and I are in our mid-20's and have been dating since high school. We're deeply in love but our sex live is less than perfect. I want it more often than she does, and also desire more variety in the act. She likes meat and potatoes sex once...
A. 7 October 2008: I am going to just say this: Enjoyable sex can only be enjoyable sex when both partners are in the mood. It sounds to me like you may be a bit pushy.
And speaking from experience, you haven't missed out any anything just because you haven't ... (read in full...)
My fiancee or my ex bf?? Whom do I choose?
Q. My fiancee and me are great together 95% of the time and I love him. Recently however, I've been talking a lot more to my bestfriend who happens to be my ex-boyfriend and he told me he still has feelings for me... the is problem is that I still have ...
A. 7 October 2008: I think it may be time for you to get some professional help from a family counselor. If you are, in fact, engaged to an emotionally abusive person, you will have to fix that problem if you want to get married to this man. It is also important to ... (read in full...)
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