I broke up with my boyfriend over this situation. Was I wrong?
Q. If you get confused about the situation, please ask me to clarify. I need as many opinions as I can get. My boyfriend's aunt never met me before, so she told him to invite me over to her house for the super bowl. When we went to her house, they ...
A. 5 February 2013: You were both wrong. Stick up for yourself when someone asks you a question about what you want to do. Explain yourself and be the better person in the situation. Don't say "no, it doesn't bother me". What's wrong with you? That's what he was ... (read in full...)
If the Past is the Past with regards to Sexual History, why do some keep in touch
Q. Hello, this site has been great for me and my relationship over the past months. Been reading many other post over many months and one thing seems to stick out or contradict each other. So just wanted to hear some thoughts on this. My ques...
A. 5 February 2013: Very few partners can deal with their spouse or boy/girlfriends maintaining relationships with their ex's. Why should they? It's irresponsible and selfish to make their partner put up with it. If they need to maintain a relationship so badly with ... (read in full...)
We're waiting until we're married -- but what if he doesn't have enough to satisfy me?
Q. Dear Cupid I am a 30 year old female due to get married in a few months. My fiancé and I are both virgins, we decided to wait till marriage. It's never something I regretted. We have spoken about sex and I have friends who are sexually active ...
A. 5 February 2013: You're first problem is you're 30 and a virgin. You know nothing about sex. It involves much more than intercourse. There's not much anyone can tell you. Experience will solve some of your ignorance but listening to your friend's advice will not ... (read in full...)
My best friend has caused me so much pain! Does he not have any idea how much he has hurt me?
Q. Dear Cupid, Around June time last year I fell for my best friend – we have known each other for 8 years and being only 24 that is quite a long time. The thing is he has supposedly wanted me this whole time, yet when I finally fell for him – he ran...
A. 5 February 2013: This is a bad relationship going down the path of being worse. Cut the pain and drop the relationship. He'll use you and act nice when he wants something. But he'll abuse you also. It's unhealthy and you know it. Be alone, work on yourself and... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend to work weekends so he can earn money even though I don't like the idea?
Q. My boyfriend and I started dating in September..everything has been going pretty well..we both love each other and constantly tell each other, he is very sweet, i have met his friends and family. So far, he is the best guy i have been and can see ...
A. 5 February 2013: Frankly, both of you are too young emotionally to get married. Your reactions and thoughts show your immaturity and he's too wishy washy to say what he wants. He needs to work. He wants to work. You want him to be with you because you're afrai... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont get engaged to me unless I get her a 20 000 euro engagement ring
Q. Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answere really helpful so I am hoping for some more advice please. I ve been agonizing over this for some time, would be really interested to hear what others think.. My girlfriend w...
A. 5 February 2013: Not only should you not buy the ring, but you should find someone else. Better yet, be alone for a while. You're in no position emotionally to get married. You seem needy and because of that you have made some poor decisions. You're being used and ... (read in full...)
Why am I not feeling stronger but worse now?
Q. I'm 18 and I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend . He is 34 . We are both very happy . We only met for the first time Saturday and had an online relationship previous to this . Every night for three months solid we had 3 hour phones ...
A. 5 February 2013: Well, I'm going to tell you some things you don't want to hear. You no doubt may be unable to see these obvious issues since you consider yourself to be in love. That's one problem right there. Being in love. It's temporary and illusion based. It w... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex that I'm going to sleep with his room mate?
Q. My ex and I had kind of a terrible breakup. The issue was that he refused to cuddle with me at all and if I tried to touch him, he would recoil and physically shove me away, which made me feel really bad about myself. He also seemed to enjoy the ...
A. 11 January 2013: Why? What purpose would it serve? You want to have sex, not get married to this room mate. The other side of it is that guys hate it when their ex sleeps with someone they know. It's just a fact. Since you all seem to have this hive mind and can't ... (read in full...)
My husband going to massage parlors. Do I leave him?
Q. I have been married to my Husband for five years. We both have two boys and all four of them live with us. About four years ago I found they my husband was on dating website we split up but decided to try and work things out. About two years ago I ...
A. 11 January 2013: He's addicted to the lifestyle. He knows that you know about it and he hasn't stopped. So, what do you want? When will he stop? He's willing to risk his marriage on the chance that you will end it. If you want to save it you'll need to go to ... (read in full...)
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