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Could he be in love and not say it?

Q.   I am in love with this boy lets just call him (Javier) I held his hands also talk about dating and he acts like he is in love with my but doesnt say nothing what does this mean?...

A.   4 June 2010: First off, how long have you been dating/together? That usually plays a big role into the situation. Most guys don't like the say those things to early in the relationship, for being scared you'll be creeped out and break it off. Also, (some) guys ... (read in full...)

I cant hide my baby bump anymore but I'm worried about telling my family as my parents are going through a divorce....

Q.   I am a 14 year old girl, and i know whats i have done is wrong and i am truly sorry. But when my mam and dad split up 7 months ago i went off the rails such as drinking just to foget about the pain that we would never do things as a family no more, ...

A.   4 June 2010: I've been a rape victim before too for that last 12 years and I'm only 16, and it just came out in the open. It's not your fault. I know it makes you feel disgusting, depressed, hopeless and scared. I do think that you need to tell the cops about ... (read in full...)

Please put my mind at rest!

Q.   Okay, so my girlfriend and i were messing around. we don't believe in having sex, however the other day she gave me a handjob... and i got some on my fingers... about ten minutes later i touched her vagina.. Am i safe? Is she pregnant?...

A.   2 June 2010: Although the odds are slim, it does only take one sperm to get someone pregnant. But I honestly dont think she is. (:... (read in full...)

My first time, the whole school knows and I think I might be pregnant!

Q.   i just had sex two days ago with this guy i have been talking to , he didn't use a condom but he swore he pulled out. im so scared that i might be pregnant. My entire school knows. it was my first time so im really scared. please help me....

A.   2 June 2010: I agree with them. Next time please try to use a condom and if he doesnt have one dont do it. From experience :/ if your not then this maybe a lesson for you hun. I hope its all going to be okay. And dont worry about the school, 10 years down they ... (read in full...)

I sent my ex an email telling him exactly how I felt but he has not replied, what should I do now?

Q.   i don't know what to do. i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago and had a pretty hard time of it since. i broke up with him because he can't give me what i want right now, we have been dating for 6 months and needed him to make a commitment to ...

A.   2 June 2010: I've went through this same thing about 4 months ago with my boyfriend, all in all we had been toogether almost 2 years. I sent him the same thing, he read it and didnt write back. About two days later, I saw him at a friends house, and it was just ... (read in full...)

He's not sure if there is an "us"

Q.   I really, really need some input here. I have been with my current BF for almost 8 yrs.He's 31, I'm 40. He has a job that takes him away from home most weeknights, and when he is home he's too tired to go out and do anything together, which I can ...

A.   2 June 2010: Well, it seems to me that hes trying to break it to you easily, sadly.. I say try talking to him about how you feel, if he wants kids theres always adoption! If you truly love someone you wouldnt let the simple things get in the way of that love. ... (read in full...)

I'm in a jam....does he like me?

Q.   well me and this boy we flirt a lot i think and we always smile at each other and im always hitting him and flicking him {ps i like him so i flirt} and we get into these fake arguements.... and on friday he kept hitting me with this air hockey thing ...

A.   13 October 2009: Well, i'd say if you really really want to do it, think it (what your going to say over in your head for a few days, they when or if you guys get alone do it. It actually is more calming that way. Always was when i was getting ready to.... (read in full...)

I'm in a jam....does he like me?

Q.   well me and this boy we flirt a lot i think and we always smile at each other and im always hitting him and flicking him {ps i like him so i flirt} and we get into these fake arguements.... and on friday he kept hitting me with this air hockey thing ...

A.   9 October 2009: Anytime (: Tell me what happens! Good luck girl.... (read in full...)

I'm in a jam....does he like me?

Q.   well me and this boy we flirt a lot i think and we always smile at each other and im always hitting him and flicking him {ps i like him so i flirt} and we get into these fake arguements.... and on friday he kept hitting me with this air hockey thing ...

A.   27 September 2009: Yeah im afraid of it too. But really its not so bad, just give him little hints, like rub is hand or play with his hair a little bit someone. of maybe just say "Hey do you wanna go to the mall or movies or something this weekend? Just as friends if ... (read in full...)

I'm in a jam....does he like me?

Q.   well me and this boy we flirt a lot i think and we always smile at each other and im always hitting him and flicking him {ps i like him so i flirt} and we get into these fake arguements.... and on friday he kept hitting me with this air hockey thing ...

A.   21 September 2009: Really? Well thats good! If you do want to be with him then and he knows it, i see nothing holding you back (:... (read in full...)

I'm in a jam....does he like me?

Q.   well me and this boy we flirt a lot i think and we always smile at each other and im always hitting him and flicking him {ps i like him so i flirt} and we get into these fake arguements.... and on friday he kept hitting me with this air hockey thing ...

A.   20 September 2009: Well Id say just stay friends and see where that goes, if he is a player, like everyone says, then you can do so much better than that. Keep your options open (:... (read in full...)

B/f stayed in the car with a girl from 4 AM to 7 AM, what should I think?

Q.   okay, I have a severe proble, well in my case it is. I have a boyfriend Named *chris and we have been going out, or together for a lil' over a year now, and we have grown close, like I have a deep attachment to him after living with him, him being ...

A.   20 September 2009: Forget him! you deserve wayyyyy better girl. i suspect what your thinking is right and i think what your thinking is right. move on to bigger and better things, you DONT need a man like that at all.... (read in full...)

I'm letting her set the pace, but I'm not sure if she's being candid about what she's comfortable with

Q.   Ok, so i have a question and asking for any tips.advice out there. I have been with my GF for almost a year now, and have not done anything sexually, except sometimes it seems like shes rubbing onto me while were makig out(if its sitting shes sit on ...

A.   20 September 2009: Next time you guys are "getting into it" just ask her and tell her you love her (if you do) and that with whatever her decision is you'll support 100% and wont push it any farther if thats what she wants. it'll make her feel less pressured and ... (read in full...)

How do I get the boy of my dreams without embarrassing myself?

Q.   Ok it would be great if someone could help me :) First i'll tell you a lil bit about me cos it will make it easier to explain, i'm in year 11 and i'm pretty shy.. especially around boys, i havn't had a proper long term relationship and really l...

A.   20 September 2009: Wow, 1 your "friends" shouldnt do that to you if they know that. Truly though i think that the note from your brother is slightly, hmm childish (in the less rude way possible) truly the next time you see him you should try flirting with him or lett... (read in full...)

I need some tips on anal sex!

Q.   Hi Aunts. I hope no one will be offended by my question. My boyfriend and I would like to try anal sex. I like the idea and am excited about it but I am just secretly worried that there will be p** on him or that it would smell or there might be ...

A.   20 September 2009: Ive never had any trouble with it, it just hurts so much sure you lube up!! But no worries on p** or it smelling bad, just make sure you dont have to go when you do it. but trust me im sure it'll be find! no worries! (:... (read in full...)

Help! I just don't know...

Q.   this..is about my boyfriend and i... we re in a long distance relationship.. its..weird.. when we re actually together..in person..things are amazing.. but..on the phone...things..are not so great. we fight..constantly..about stupid things. ...

A.   20 September 2009: In a way it sorta sounds like hes hiding something which gets at his fuse, it sounds alot like some of the relationships ive known. are you sure hes not interested or seeing someone else? But i just say to talk to him about it all, tell him how ... (read in full...)

Am I going to have to just keep waiting and dreaming?

Q.   hey i am 16 and have never had a boyfriend, well i say never i have had silly boyfriends that have lasted about a week, i have never even kissed a boy or anything. does that makeme fridgid? there have beenlots of guys ilike but i have never had t...

A.   20 September 2009: I admire you actually, waiting is so hard for teenagers, trust me i know, it doesnt make you frigid at all, but if you like someone or you do want something i say you should go for it! Dreaming is great but if you dont try you never know what could ... (read in full...)

I'm in a jam....does he like me?

Q.   well me and this boy we flirt a lot i think and we always smile at each other and im always hitting him and flicking him {ps i like him so i flirt} and we get into these fake arguements.... and on friday he kept hitting me with this air hockey thing ...

A.   20 September 2009: Well of course theres nothing wrong with flirting with a boy you like, but dont get your hopes up too high, ive done that many times and came to realize some boys just are total players and just flirt to flirt, but it sounds like he is interested in ... (read in full...)

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