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How do I get the boy of my dreams without embarrassing myself?

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Question - (20 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok it would be great if someone could help me :)

First i'll tell you a lil bit about me cos it will make it easier to explain, i'm in year 11 and i'm pretty shy.. especially around boys, i havn't had a proper long term relationship and really like this boy. Ok this boy, he's in year 13 at sixth form (2 years above and also in my brothers year) believe me he is gorgeous. And he was flirting with me the other week at my brothers 18th party.. but i never speak to him. He asked my brother if i was his sister and said i was really fit and was looking at me all night! I even heard him say to a group of people "omg how beautiful is she". But i'm wondering why he has never noticed me before.. i don't see him much at school but i sometimes pass him.. i don't know why but i always look a mess at school.. my make-up goes awful nd stuff nd i try to look nice but it never works.. i look great at home and parties nd stuff though. Ok anyway i recently fell out with these 3 girls and 1 of them imparticular talks to him on msn and has his number.. i even heard she was meeting up with him.. (i dont know if thats true though) anyway im banned from msn so i can't talk to him on there and i don't have his number :( so i wrote my number on a little note and gave it to my brother to give to him.. but its no good, my brother hasnt seen him and i dont think he will give it him when he does.. hes kinda pathetic like that. Im starting to lose hope. What if he has forgotten me and who i am? What if my ex friends get in there before me..plus the fact i know one of the popular girls likes him. Im too shy to go up to him.. if i spoke to him id go bright red and embarrass myself, andd even if i did talk to him it would have to be at school when i look terrible. We don't know each other that well but i really like him and really need help with what to do.. (my brother still has the note with my number to give him if he ever gets chance..) but it would be great if someone could help me! Thankkks x

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A female reader, brandyy United States +, writes (20 September 2009):

brandyy agony auntWow, 1 your "friends" shouldnt do that to you if they know that.

Truly though i think that the note from your brother is slightly, hmm childish (in the less rude way possible) truly the next time you see him you should try flirting with him or letting him know that your interested in him. the note thing can be taken as a joke or just be prove for drama or be shown around to other classmates and have you be made fun of. grade and middle school is like that, high school isnt much different sadly. but trust me on this.

good luck!

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