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Q.   well....i cant believe i am writing this post....i am 25.. just felt to vent out so i am here...i dont know where my life is taking me...i feel miserable and worse all the time and want to just roll over in bed and cry although i know it wont ...

A.   13 August 2010: First of all I just have to say that I thought I was the only person in the world who had problems like this, it's weird seeing someone with the same problems. Second try and stop supressing your emotions because I do it and it will have a serious ... (read in full...)

Deeply in love with my cousin, don't know how she feels and it's making me depressed.

Q.   Hi, This is probably the most awkward and most frustrating problem i probably have had to deal with my whole life. I Will start it off by reciting the story. I moved to the US at age 2 and i was born in South India ( Kerala). I usually go to India...

A.   13 August 2010: Just talk to her, ask if she sees you as a big brother or as something more but don't be as blunt as that. Now here's where the after part comes in, if she says she sees you as a brother then you shouldn't be upset about that and go jump off a ... (read in full...)

Will she ever like me too?

Q.   Hello I have found a amazing girl that I met through school and have been speaking to her for a year, we get on really well and can always make eachother laugh, I realised I had feeling for her around 8 months ago and told her 2 months later,she ...

A.   11 August 2010: I am in virtually the same situation the only differences are that I haven't told her how I feel and that we don't hang around in the same group. What I would do is, ask her out but also say the things you have said in your article, how you can't ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend thinks my breasts are too big, is he right to ask for a reduction?

Q.   I'm going out with my boyfriend 10 months and everything going well except for in the bedroom. He prefers women with smaller breasts and I've become very conscious that my 32f breasts must be a turn off to him. I used to love having my breasts ...

A.   11 August 2010: Don't do it because he wants you to do it, if he doesn't like that about you well then that's just tough luck to him. You should be with someone that accepts you for who you are, not someone who wants to change you. ... (read in full...)

Should you tell your friend private info even if it risks violating their personal business?

Q.   I have some private info that my best friend might very much appreciate knowing. Out of respect for her and our friendship I want to tell her, but my concern is that if I do, it runs the risk of me being involved/knowing too much about her personal ...

A.   11 August 2010: If it is out of respect for her and your friendship then I say do it, you say friend might very much appreciate knowing, so do it. But just to be on the safe side see what other people say and build your choice on the advice people give. Hope this ... (read in full...)

I love him but he flirts with other girls, can I trust him?

Q.   I am absolutely in love with an idiot and i don't know what to do. I don't want to dump him because i know i cant live without him but i think it would be better for me if i did leave him. but i cant. I think he takes me for granted. he gets off ...

A.   11 August 2010: That's a tough situation, you wrote that he makes you feel on top of the world sometimes but sometimes he makes you feel so depressed, in my opinion the negative outweighs the positive, you shouldn't stay with him if keeps making you feel depressed, ... (read in full...)

We had broken up, but she still considers it cheating, what should I do?

Q.   me and my fiance, recently broke up and I moved to another town, i went out with another girl while I would visit my fiance thinking we could work it out. we have since reconsiled but she refuses to admit that we were broke up even though w...

A.   11 August 2010: Just because you got back together doesn't mean you were never apart. You should ask her if she considers the fact that she was with other men cheating if she doesn't then that's kind of stupid because it's the exact same thing.... (read in full...)

I am being overcome by retro-jealousy, please help!

Q.   I hope someone can offer some words as I feel a bit overwhelmed at the moment. I suffer from retroactive jealousy and I have for the past year been working on it. Its a conscious effort and an ongoing process but sometimes, like today it can get too ...

A.   10 August 2010: You have no need to be jealous of her, in fact she should be jealous of you. You are the one he loves now not her just focus on YOUR relationship with him. When he was with her I bet he could have done alot better and now he has :-). I hope this ... (read in full...)

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