How can I talk to my family about my ex abusing me and also deal with my new relationship?
Q. So a little back story first. I'm 17, I was sexually abused by my ex for almost a year, and I am working with the police on charges for the assault. Because I am a minor, I have to tell my parents that I am making allegations against him, and they ...
A. 11 April 2012: My boyfriend is trying to get him to back off, its just been awkward timing with leaving the country after the other guy asked for sexual stuff the first time. me and the other guy aren't really talking anymore, I didn't put out enough for him. I ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend had sex with me while I was asleep!
Q. Have a problem, don't know who to talk to. I've been with my bf for three years straight. Before we got serious, I told him I wanted to wait till we got married before we actually had sex. I've been grown in a Christian home and yea I know this ...
A. 23 March 2011: Break up with him. You were raped, and it is well within your rights to press charges. You did not want what he did, and he could very well have gotten you pregnant if he has done this before. You dont know what happened the last few times he has ... (read in full...)
I'm self-conscious about the appearance of my vulva
Q. So, i'm self-conscious about my vagina. It is not my labia it is the skin around my clit. It is saggy and sorta pokes out a tad bit. I did some research, but everything i find is about the labia and that is not what it is. I'm really worried that a ...
A. 19 March 2011: First of all, that is totally normal. The point is to protect the clit, so it should stick out a little bit, right? Also, if the appearence turns a guy off, do you really want him down there? To begin with, the reason for him doing anything there ... (read in full...)
Your happiest marriage memory?
Q. Hey Cupiders. This isn't really a relationship quiestion as of such. It's just, i'm on this site regularly to help out with people problems, giving advice and such like. I was just wondering if there is anyone on here who is in a happy marriage o...
A. 20 December 2010: I am only 15, and with my first boyfriend, but I think the happiest moment I remember with him was at a movie this weekend, just having his arms wrapped around my waist and leaning against him. Throughout the entire movie we kissed once, and it was ... (read in full...)
My friend is making a big mistake! How can I make her see sense?
Q. My friend who's my age is having sex in a week w/ a guy who's not even her boyfriend (she doesn't have one). Basically, she's in love with this guy and he's a total player. He hooks up with anyone that has boobs and something to stick it in (yes, ...
A. 17 September 2010: Oh sweetie, I have watched my friends do this too... It sucks, trust me. If she isn't going to be talked out of it, at least make sure that they are safer. If you have to, buy her the condom. My friend almost got pregnant at 12. Another thing, try ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of 11 years pregnant but now I've found the girl of my dreams
Q. 11 years I've been with my girlfriend, didn't marry since I always suspected I'd find someone else, someone I knew the moment I lay eyes on her.. it came about 5 months ago, both the knowledge of a baby girl and love of my life started working ...
A. 6 September 2010: How dare you drag this poor woman along for 11 years as a safety net? Did you think about her at all as more than that? Did you ever see a future with her?
Now, did she see a future with you? Did she think that in the end, you would realize ... (read in full...)
I've been secretly dating an older guy. Should I tell my parents?
Q. i really like this older guy and we have been secretly together for the past 7 months but my sadly i am not allowed to date. should i tell my parents? how do i keep this older guy interested in only me and no other girl?...
A. 3 September 2010: What I'd really like to know is how old this older man is? If he isnt pressuring you, and he isnt asking for things you are not willing to give him, why not tell your parents? If you trust him, and show that to your parents, and they see that he ... (read in full...)
Should I ask if she wants to try to have sex?
Q. Due to a variety of circumstances my wife and I haven't been intimate more than a handful of times since the birth of our second child in Jan 08. For the past year she has been battling what the dr's say may be a hypersensitivity to yeast, may be a ...
A. 21 August 2010: Well... I think you could try to make her feel good in other ways... I dont claim to have any experience with sex, or anything like that, but I do not that touching "down there" isnt the only way. Try giving her a sensual back massage, or neck ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I have much of a future!
Q. Im only 13, but I dont see much of a future for myself. I have never had any "real" friends [ ones that I can really talk to about serious things ]. I dont hang out or talk to anyone at all. At school most people talk about me behind my back saying ...
A. 21 August 2010: I used to be like that when I was in grade 9. I pulled away from everyone, and I never really talked. High school is supposed to be this fun and exciting place, but it honestly isnt that much different. There are just more people. In highschool ... (read in full...)
Sex, red bumps and thrush
Q. me and my boyfreind have been going out for 7months and before we met i was going out with this guy for a year and we had sex a couple of times sometimes without a condom but he had never had sex with anyone else and neither had i, but now my 7 ...
A. 21 August 2010: Please go see a doctor. Get yourself checked for STI's and STD's. The blisters sound a lot like an STD, and the longer you leave it, the worse it will get. Also, before you go off the pill, talk to your doctor, and ask them what is the best course ... (read in full...)
Sex, red bumps and thrush
Q. me and my boyfreind have been going out for 7months and before we met i was going out with this guy for a year and we had sex a couple of times sometimes without a condom but he had never had sex with anyone else and neither had i, but now my 7 ...
A. 21 August 2010: Please go see a doctor. Get yourself checked for STI's and STD's. The blisters sound a lot like an STD, and the longer you leave it, the worse it will get. Also, before you go off the pill, talk to your doctor, and ask them what is the best course ... (read in full...)
I'm unsure of his feelings, does it appear as though he likes me?
Q. First of all, hi there! Well this is sort of a long story so apologies in advance :) I think it started around January, I like anime (you know, Japanese anime and manga) and I thought "hmm I wonder if there are any anime conventions in the Uk"...
A. 12 July 2010: I believe that he really likes you. I do the same thing as he did on the meet up, because usually im not shy, but when i really like someone, i am... i have also told this story to the boy, and he thinks he is crazy about you... i would keep talking ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what parts of a man are most attractive?
Q. Ladies, which body parts of a man do you find most attractive? Abs, legs, arms, eyes etc. ...
A. 30 June 2010: I definetly notice eyes. You can tell a lot from the way a man looks at you. Hands I usually notice soon after, becuase I melt when he holds my hand, or caresses my arm. ... (read in full...)
His "dirty talk" on the phone made me feel uncomfortable...
Q. I have liked this guy for a while, over a year in fact. We used to work together but then I went away for a year. Since I've been home I've hardly seen him but he's been ringing me most evenings for a chat. Anyway i've always been the kind of person ...
A. 20 June 2010: I understand! I think the thing you should do is tell him you like him, because you still do, don't you? Also tell him that you didn't like the dirty talk. When he went there, he reciprocated your feelings, so you know that he fancies you. Take it ... (read in full...)
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