I'm a masculine guy who wants a masculine guy...but I can't find anyone. Help, I'm sick of being alone!
Q. Is there anyone who feels like I do? Im a 19 year old masculine gay guy and I live in this small town in north Carolina and there are almost no gay guys here. There's a few promiscuious feminine guys but I don't want anything to do with them. I'm a ...
A. 22 July 2009: Many guys are in the same situation as you are. Myself included. I have profiles on a few different sites. Yes I have found other masculine guys, but they always live on the other side of the country or in a different one. But its usualy the m... (read in full...)
I want a relationship but I'm to scared to meet them!
Q. Im gay, i have never had a relationship with another guy. My first time was with a guy, and i was 22. It was only a one night stand (which i am against, not sure why i did that one). But lately i have had oportunities to meet with other guys, but i ...
A. 21 July 2009: Ive thought about looking at other cities. the nearest one that would most likely have a LGBT friendly therapist would be about 2 hours away. But that just to the city limits. It would probably take another hour or so just to get to the office. But ... (read in full...)
My husband told me he's gay ...
Q. My husband told me yesterday that he was gay. He said he hadn't cheated on me or anything, but felt something inside of him that made him have to "get it out". We haven't had sex at all for the last few weeks, so that explains why he wasn't ...
A. 20 July 2009: there isnt anything you can do about this. Many gay people have tried being straight to be "normal". But have ended up hurting their families and themselves. Ive met many guy online that have gone through this same situation (most after being ... (read in full...)
My brain says no but my heart says .....
Q. Two days ago I had my first same sex sexual experience. I have been thinking about doing so for many years but was too scared to act upon it. I enjoyed it but now im very confused and I am not sure what I am. I have been feeling ill to the point I ...
A. 20 July 2009: There are alot of gay sites online, but none are for just Canada. But you can look at certain provinces. Thats about it. Ive been trying to find someone near me for three years now. Either there isnt any near me, or they dont have profiles set up. ... (read in full...)
Gay guy wondering about a date with a girl
Q. Well I am a 23 year gay guy. I have never been with a women. I still suffer with self acceptence, im working on it. But I have wanted to try it with a girl, but never really pursue it. This afternoon my boss was talking with me (no one knows im gay ...
A. 20 July 2009: thanks for all the answers. I do see why I shouldnt go out on a date with a female co worker. things could end up bad.
After thinking about it for a couple of days. I have decided to not ask her out.
As far back as I can remember. There ... (read in full...)
I want a relationship but I'm to scared to meet them!
Q. Im gay, i have never had a relationship with another guy. My first time was with a guy, and i was 22. It was only a one night stand (which i am against, not sure why i did that one). But lately i have had oportunities to meet with other guys, but i ...
A. 14 July 2009: There are not many therapists where I live. It a small city and the older generations are homophobic (religious of course). ... (read in full...)
I want a relationship but I'm to scared to meet them!
Q. Im gay, i have never had a relationship with another guy. My first time was with a guy, and i was 22. It was only a one night stand (which i am against, not sure why i did that one). But lately i have had oportunities to meet with other guys, but i ...
A. 4 July 2009: Well no luck with the therapist. Once again I have burried myself in my work. Im going to be heading to school for training and I keep trying to get a bigger work load to keep my mind off of things.
Why do I keep doing this? I cant stop... (read in full...)
I want a relationship but I'm to scared to meet them!
Q. Im gay, i have never had a relationship with another guy. My first time was with a guy, and i was 22. It was only a one night stand (which i am against, not sure why i did that one). But lately i have had oportunities to meet with other guys, but i ...
A. 27 June 2009: I know I shouldnt dwel on the past. But its the past that made me the person I am today. Its hard to just say "ok im not going to do this any more" even though that is what I have been doing my entire life. Ive become so used to just bottling ... (read in full...)
I "know" I'm gay but I don't want to go out with a gay guy, I only seem to like straight guys!
Q. Never Thought of asking this on here before but it's now or never, Why do I "not" like gay guys? I think of them and I think to myself never in my life would I go after that, but here's the thing... I'm gay!!! And in the past I've only ever liked ...
A. 27 June 2009: I agree with Mitta. I myself am attracted to the "manly" men. Maculine and all that good stuff :-). I had a gay friend who had many of the stereotypical gay tendencies. He wanted more then friendship with me, but i couldnt do it. Im not attracted to ... (read in full...)
I would love to find a meaningful relationship but it's just not happening...
Q. I guess this is a long one so where to start. I'm 21, I'm Gay, I came out when I was 17 years old and had a fantastic response from everyone I know. As a person I'm not effeminate in anyway, most new people that meet me are shocked to find out that ...
A. 27 June 2009: Wow im going through almost the exact same thing. so really there isnt anything I can say that would help. (Im still going through it so it wouldnt be good advice lol) But I geuss I can say this. Hold in there, it cant rain all the time.... (read in full...)
I can't tell my parents I'm gay. Should I move far away?
Q. Well i´m gay and i cant sum up the courage to tell my parents. what should i do? i could move away, very far away. Or should i just stay single my whole life. i want children though, even if they are adopted. i dont want to live life scared....
A. 27 June 2009: Take it from me. You can NEVER run away from your fears. Ive tried it and it only makes things worse. I thought as tho you did. My biggest fear was the my family would regect me. So I held it all in, then after grad I left as soon as I could. due to ... (read in full...)
I am 15 years old and I'm scared I may be gay!
Q. i am 15 years old and im scared i may be gay because growing up i didn't have a father figure at all because my dad was never around, and i try to make myself a man each day but its hard see i only get aroused to naked men not women and i really ...
A. 27 June 2009: You dont need to fear being gay. I myself went through the same situation. I hated it, I wanted to grow up and have a family too. Being gay does not mean you cannot have children (well depending on where you life, for now. Equality is coming to the ... (read in full...)
I want a relationship but I'm to scared to meet them!
Q. Im gay, i have never had a relationship with another guy. My first time was with a guy, and i was 22. It was only a one night stand (which i am against, not sure why i did that one). But lately i have had oportunities to meet with other guys, but i ...
A. 27 June 2009: Thank you glittereverywhere & Gina for your response. I will try my hardest to put both in practice.
After posting my question I realized I left some important stuff out, that most likely is the cause of all this stress, fear, and hatred. ... (read in full...)
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