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writes:my bf seem so lazy all the time and im starting to feel like his mother. when i ask him to do anything he take weeks to do it. for a few examples i asked him 7 weeks ago if i left one of my fave tops at his and he still not looked, 8 months ago i gave him a housing form to fill in so he can have a bit of help when moving to my city (we lives 80 miles apart), my work offered him a full time job but he failed to phone back to say he wanted the job so they gave it to someone else after 4 weeks of waiting and he meant to be at mine 3 days ago for christmas but he gonna try and catch the last train on xmas eve as he still not done his christmas shopping. ive tried to leave him but something stops me for doing so. he just says im moaning at him too much and the reason he doesnt do the stuff i told him to if because he wont take orders from me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm leaving him after our holiday
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reader, blueyedgirl  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 If he loved you and really wanted to live near you then he wouldn't need to be reminded, repeatedly, to take care of the details, i.e. job, house, etc. It sounds to of like he is not mature enough or responsible enough for a serious relationship. If you have talked to him about this issue and he says the he isn't doing things just because you tell him to then don't tell him to... and when he still doesn't do it... dump him and get a MAN.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): I've told him to stay out my life
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 December 2009):
I think you need to figure out what's stopping you from leaving him.
Is this really the best you think you can do?
Yes I'm sure he's lovely in other ways but there are a million other men out there exactly like him BUT who can get their acts together.
Give him ONE MORE chance. Stop nagging him, stop reminding him, stop asking him ANYTHING. Just leave him to it.
And when he lets you down which he WILL, tell him it's over. My money is on that you'll be single by new year.
Good Luck!! xx
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