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I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!

Q.   so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....

A.   16 September 2008: Ok I am going to be blunt about this! He is looking at babies basically, but your thinking about your fears of losing him, co-dependency, and I am sorry if I come off harsh but you will have a hard blow one day, and wish you would have ignored the ... (read in full...)

Did he have an affair with an ex friend's daughter?

Q.   ive just been clearing some memory on my laptop when i came across a history of conversation that went on between my husband and a ex friends daughter who is 17 my hubby is 37 he had an affair over 10 years ago and pronmised he would never do it ...

A.   16 September 2008: I believe the fact he is online with a 17yr old, who seems to need money, and is offering her services. And that you pretty much feel he will or would take her up on it is illegal where I am from, but your feelings come first! He is responsible for ... (read in full...)

I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!

Q.   so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....

A.   16 September 2008: You run away far far away real quick, report it to the police immediately! I am sorry but that is sick love is not a factor in this situation~ sorry!!!... (read in full...)

I am just so outraged! Is he some kind of pervert? What should I do?

Q.   I recently made a horrific discovery that is making me questioning the man I thought I loved. While helping to clean out his room, I came across a stash of some 30 or more porn magazines and several DVDs stashed away. I was shocked. He told me ...

A.   16 September 2008: No I believe it's natural for men to look@ Porno~ the problem comes in IF he ever gets on dating sites/porno to meet women to have actual sex. If he is at home with you every night, your sex life is great, then just keep an eye out for any changes ... (read in full...)

I've been in extreme pain ever since I found out he had a profile in a sex dating site!

Q.   Hi i have a big problem i have been with my commen law husband for 8 years in january im going on 23 he's going on 26 we have two children a girl age 6 and a boy age 5 we have had a rocky relationship but i know he has been faithfull for about 5 ...

A.   16 September 2008: Oh no way! He is playing you big time & imagine what he might bring home to you in bed! If he has gotten away with it before, why not again but on a site~ I can't say end your marriage, but would you want your son to treat his wife like that! Common ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't she care where her husband is?!

Q.   I am dating a man who has filed for divorce and is just waiting for his court date.He showed me the papers etc.. as I wanted to be sure before our relationship progressed. problem is they have to share their house until it sells so they can both ...

A.   16 September 2008: Sounds like maybe all those lonely nights he spent alone@ home, were b/c she may have a man she has been having an affair with for sometime. Wait a sec though, go with your instincts! Maybe he has papers, but he wants his pie and eat it too. I thin... (read in full...)

Did he have an affair with an ex friend's daughter?

Q.   ive just been clearing some memory on my laptop when i came across a history of conversation that went on between my husband and a ex friends daughter who is 17 my hubby is 37 he had an affair over 10 years ago and pronmised he would never do it ...

A.   16 September 2008: You know the truth~ you have the evidence right there! And he had an affair before, then what you found and read! I don't believe he is going to change, but print it off and confront him! I am not saying give up on your marriage, but love & respect ... (read in full...)

I can't seem to penetrate her, we are both virgins, any recommended positions/tecnhiques?

Q.   My girlfriend and I are virgins and when we try to have sex, I cant seem to go inside her. She seems so tight. We had done loads of foreplay and she is very wet and moist but im not having much joy. Any positions/techniques to try or what to do?...

A.   16 September 2008: Try Missonary position or have her get on top! Sounds like she might need to relax a little maybe. Might try making it not so intense, help her relax. Are you sure your having a hard erection, if so take your time, talk whatever you know makes her ... (read in full...)

My friend told me it's best to lose my virginity myself and not let my boyfriend do it....

Q.   If been with my boyfriend for more that one year and i want to have sex with him (im a virgin)...so I told a friend about it and she told me that it was better that i would lose it with myself so he will not see the blood, and i wouldnt feel the ...

A.   16 September 2008: Sounds as if your somewhat young & not real educated on sex! Could be wrong, but sounds like maybe you need to speak to an adult you trust, and feel comfortable about sex. In my opinion, its natural to bleed when you first have sex b/c your hymen ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants me to masturbate in front of her - but I don't know how.

Q.   i'm a 14 year male and my story's alittle akword... my girlfriend asked me to masterbate im front of her, (not going into detail) and i really don't know how to masterbate. i'm pretty despirate......

A.   16 September 2008: The first question is if you knew how to masturbate in front of her~ Do you want to & feel comfortable? K-Y Jelly WORKS wonders, and ask her to play with you first so you get an idea of how she likes it & you'll know exactly what to do then!!... (read in full...)

Being cheated for 3 years, want out now. What type of financial support can I get from my husband for me and my child?

Q.   I found out my husband cheated on my when our son BeBe was just 4 weeks, he is going to be 3 this Oct. The other woman just gave birth to my husband child 3 month ago. After almost three years of sharing my husband with the other woman, there is n...

A.   16 September 2008: Hard enough dealing with financial worries, I am so sorry~ you deserve better but I would take him for all he has got before she takes him for child support. Get a lawyer and act like you don't know a thing~ he deserves it! You need family support & ... (read in full...)

What should I do now to stop being pregnant??

Q.   Last night i had sex usig condom but unfourtunatley it broke and becose i was scared i took a pill of microgynon which i had stopped for a while, what shall i do now? Is it possible that this piss to not have an efect from the first day? What you...

A.   16 September 2008: Are you meaning you stopped your pills so when the condom broke you decided to start them again? If that's the case yes there can be a chance of pregnancy, as pills least take a months use to be covered. There are new options other than pills if you ... (read in full...)

Does this request for lunch mean anything from a guy??

Q.   I emailed a guy i liked to buy him lunch which he turn down coz he said he could not make it and suggested another day instead. I did not ask him again pursue since then. However, after a week or 2, he suddenly ask me about the lunch and insist that ...

A.   16 September 2008: That's a tricky one with this guy! I agree say no and let him offer to take you to lunch if he is so interested. He could just been out of money that day, and remembered your offer. He is the guy he pays for the lunch. ... (read in full...)

My ex bf is displaying a lot of signs of a sociopath/serial bully, Does he need help or is this just his personality?

Q.   I have known my ex off and on since childhood and I am becoming increasingly worried about him. He is displaying alot of the hallmarks of a sociopath/serial bully, and I wonder if he get help for this or if this is his personality. I really don't...

A.   16 September 2008: Wow! All the answers/stories! I don't feel so alone & crazy~I had a break down & almost went inpatient from my husband of 8 months! I thought he was the one, charming, worked hard. At first he made every effort to please me, but he was ... (read in full...)

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