Does a lack of sex justify cheating in a committed relationship?
Q. Could the lack of sex in my relationship have caused my boyfriend to cheat? We were together for 2 years and we both live at home with our parents. We both come from very strict households which made it hard for us to have that "quality time" to...
A. 29 April 2012: No nothing justifies cheating ever , if he was cheating with several other girls he may have been a player from the beginning. and only time will heal the breakup just dont think its your fault and you'll be ok .... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about my pregnancy? He does not want a baby!
Q. Ok to start off yes I know how stupid I was, but it happened and I can't change it now. This guy and I had been on about 2 dates at the time. we had sex and the thing I never expected to happen...happened. I got pregnant. The issue is, he talks ...
A. 28 April 2012: Yes you should tell him as soon as possible, trust me you will need all the support you can get when it comes to babies. and for someone who doesn't want anymore babies he really needs to start using condoms. regardless of how they feel. you will ... (read in full...)
Why can't I date a black guy?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now. Put simply, I'm white and he's black. My dad insists that he's not racist, but he seems funny about it. He says there are risks involved in society. At the end of the day I really like my boyfriend, I ...
A. 28 April 2012: The only person who should care about who your with is yourself. Your dad will eventually come around and if not its just ignorance on his part. Just go with your heart if he makes "YOU" happy nothing else should matter.... (read in full...)
Retroactive Jealousy is driving me insane. Help!!
Q. I need help in dealing with Retroactive Jealousy. I’ll keep this as short as I can. Kevin (my bf) was in love with me since school. I didn’t feel the same way and turned him down. A couple of yrs later, I fell for him and tried to approach him....
A. 17 April 2011: Well you are being really unfair to him I have actually been in similar situation. You just gotta figure he was with her and you were with "a Kevin look-alike(I know, stupid, right????), another with a player who was a real jerk." . now would it b... (read in full...)
Any advice on who to pick or what to do?
Q. I am currently single, and I have to decide between two wonderful individuals. The first is my ex and the second is the young lady I broke up with (for other reasons). I love them both and I really cant decide who I want to be with. Any advice on ...
A. 17 April 2011: I agree , I think its time to move on from both of them. reasons that they are your ex's will arise and will be the same reasons they will be your ex's again. so better to move to someone new .... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm risking so much by staying this relationship...
Q. hey all, well just about half hour ago, my boyfriend of almost 5 yrs told me the same thing. we are both 23 btw. he told me that its like a stressful "need" for him to go with other women. he says this crying as if he's guilty 4 feeling this way, ...
A. 10 March 2011: Well you said it already , fr someone to break up with you to sleep with other people and get back together is the same as cheating. I dont understand how or even why you would put up with this or even consider it. he is not the only man in this ... (read in full...)
He spent money on his ex, but not on me
Q. My bf spent lots of money on his ex but not on me, how can I change this? He paid for everything in that relationship whilst its more evn here. I have tried using the 'I dont have money' trick even though Im quite well off. It seems to work bu...
A. 19 October 2010: well you can first stop trying to press the continue button on him and his ex. Maybe he's sick of paying for everything. tho the idea is nice of a man paying for every single thing but this isnt the 40's anymore women have Jobs and careers and now ... (read in full...)
I want to end the FWB relationship but hes scared I'll talk bad about him
Q. i want to end my casual relationship,fwb,booty call or whatever you wish to name it. im scared to end it though. i dont know how to end it. we already lasted a while. im scared he would bad talk about me. i dont want to end it on bad term where we ...
A. 19 October 2010: Just talk about it ad end it. Its not that big of a deal. I've been though similar twice . and wasn't a big deal to end it.Just communicate... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm risking so much by staying this relationship...
Q. hey all, well just about half hour ago, my boyfriend of almost 5 yrs told me the same thing. we are both 23 btw. he told me that its like a stressful "need" for him to go with other women. he says this crying as if he's guilty 4 feeling this way, ...
A. 17 October 2010: well I'll start off by saying a man is no different than a woman when t comes to sexual needs and urges. and when you start a young relationship like that with no experience sadly these things happen. and eventually he will give in to them ... (read in full...)
How to cope with a possible bad decision to end the relationship?
Q. I dated this girl for about 4 months not long I know we are both in college we broke up obviously I dated other girls and what not and I was happy, plus I cheated on her. Yes it was wrong and yes I felt like shit after. Anyways, we end up getting ...
A. 17 October 2010: I think its time to man up and get over it. People never seem to realize that when they break a relationship up enough times and their counterpart gets fed up its over. The only reason you went back to her is because she was available. But now that ... (read in full...)
Do I risk my marriage to find a better match? I feel my husband is more of a roommate.
Q. I’m 30 and been married to my husband for 2 years now. We do not have any kids together. To give you a little background, I met him through mutual friends that were also dating. When I first met him, I was not attracted to him. But my friends told ...
A. 6 October 2010: I think your marriage was done before it began. Believe it or not marriage is a BIG DEAL and one should not do so because someone contains attributes so they can take care of you and because of pressure. you should only have married only if you were ... (read in full...)
Should I walk away or steal him away?
Q. I have had a crush on this guy for years and me and him are friends and have been for a really long time. Not to long ago me and him had sex and he got his ex-girlfriend back I met her and she is nice and everything but a big part of me was wanting ...
A. 6 October 2010: I think you should get over it . because yes you had some fun. but deep down maybe that's all it was then you start to feel more for him. that would jus complicate the whole thing and "stealing" him away wont help cause if he leaves for you how do ... (read in full...)
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