She hasn't offered nor attempted to contribute funds to pay for some of our outings. How should I bring up the subject of money?
Q. I've been dating a woman for the last two months. We've been hitting it off with great chemistry and I really like her. The only thing that is nagging at me and I'm not sure how to approach her is about money. We have gone out to eat about 9-10 ...
A. 19 May 2016: I have a similar thing with my boyfriend. At first he would pay but now it has become a THING. Try to not let it become a thing.
Try to do free dates where it is not an issue. Then try to ask her about it.
Maybe not a dinner, they can be pric... (read in full...)
My bf thinks I'm scared of sex because I'm still a virgin?
Q. But the truth is...I am nervous about doing it with a real person. But I've also been using sex toys for over a year now. And some are bigger or the same size as my bf (I gave him handjobs so I know his size). To me the toys are really private so I ...
A. 19 May 2016: It doesn't matter what most people do, and most people in my opinion don't have sex after a week. It depends on the situation and most of all you need to feel really comfortable and trustworthy.
The boy you can tell about your toys, and your fea... (read in full...)
Do I walk away? Or do I try to explain how I am feeling to my Bf?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm just going to jump right in with the story. So I've been dating my on off boyfriend for 2 years and anyway he's 10 years older than me and due to stupid things he's done in the past still lives at home with his dad. The p...
A. 19 May 2016: I would start with explaining your feelings to your BF but be ready to walk away.
You are university, one of the best times of your life with a chance to explore yourself. It sounds like this is holding you back.
Maybe say to him that at the ... (read in full...)
My parents forced us to breakup. Two months later what should I do?
Q. Hello all :) I am writing seeking some advice from you good people as I have been facing the pain of a breakup for the past 2.5 months now. I have become depressed and mentally unstable through all of this, but am working really hard to become m...
A. 19 May 2016: Hello. I am very sorry for the pain you are going through. You need to think of any reasons your parents decided you needed to break up, but the fact your father now supports you getting back together is positive. Being sexually active ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I should leave or stay?
Q. I'm unhappily married. My husband cheated a few yrs back, I've since fallen out of love with him, the thought of finding someone else excites me. I'm not going to allow myself into a position where I might cheat, but I'm unsure if I can go through ...
A. 19 May 2016: Trust is the basis to a relationship and trying to rebuild this can be a very daunting task. In order to go about this, communication is key. Try talking to him very honestly about how you feel. Tell him that you are struggling to feel comforta... (read in full...)
My ex had a medical emergency and I allowed him to move back in. Now he needs surgery and I regret my weakness. Any ideas?
Q. I have a relationship issue. I am not one of the super young people. That is why I feel bad about asking this question. I have been dating this guy, off and on, about 5 years. In year 3, he left me for someone else. I didn't want him back, bu...
A. 19 May 2016: I could agree with above and say he was using you, but I think there is a deeper side to this. He may not be using you, he may have come to you as a point of refuge and because he trusts in your kindness and Christian values. If he offered to ma... (read in full...)
I need advice! I'm young, married and unhappy!
Q. Hi looking for advice. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, married for 6. About two years ago I moved for work, we had talked it over and agreed he would move the rest of our stuff and then come join me in a month. However he ended up ...
A. 18 May 2016: I am so sorry for what you are going through. The way you have described him makes it sound like an abusive relationship, emotionally and verbally. He seems to have little respect for you, your future or your happiness. You have expressed an int... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent a love and apology letter to his ex while with me!
Q. We have been together 6 years on and off. We were changing the furniture in his room I found a letter he wrote to his ex last year. He broke up with her 6 years ago now, as he moved country. She lives in Italy. I ended up translating it to English ...
A. 18 May 2016: I want you to look at this slightly differently. You read the letter, fair enough these things happen. In terms of what he wrote, I don't think he wants to get back together with her and I don't think it even says he loves her. What it does ... (read in full...)
Do I lose my virginity to the next girl that comes along or wait for someone I like? Should I pay for it?
Q. Do I lose my virginity to the next girl that comes along or wait for someone I like? Should I pay for it? It makes me feel really bad about myself. I have a lot going on but the fact I've never had intercourse alone makes me feel like less of a ...
A. 18 May 2016: Firstly, being a virgin is not a thing to be ashamed of. It is a choice, but at the end of the day it is an action and not a label. There are people all over the world you are virgins. They may be jocks, in grad school, frat boys, or people who some ... (read in full...)
I'm disappointed with my girlfriend's weight and health, any suggestions?
Q. So we've been going out for a few months with this girl and in the beginning, we promised each other that we'll make lifestyle changes. I used to drink quite a lot before her and also smoked quite a lot. She was overweight (she should lose at l...
A. 18 May 2016: Hello, It looks there are two seperate problems to address here. Firstly the betrayal that you made a promise to live a healthier life together and you feel that she hasn't kept that promise to you. In part this may leave you feeling unsur... (read in full...)
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