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I am a 25 year old female that works as a social worker in the mental health field. I am usually pretty good at giving advice, it is what I get paid to do afterall! I am pretty crappy at giving myself advice though lol
I live in York Region, that's North of Toronto, Ontario so everyone knows.
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Invited to two parties! Which one do I choose?
Q. hey, about 2 or 3 weeks ago i was invited to a girls halloween party and i said i would go... but yesterday i found out that my best friend was having a party on the same day for his birthday. what should i do?... im going to have to pick one but i ...
A. 22 October 2006: Bro's before you-know-what's. I am sure that you have heard this before and although it feels like your friend will always be there and this girl is important, your friend should be where your loyalty lies at this point. Explain it to the girl and ... (read in full...)
Why is she acting like we aren't together? Any advice appreciated
Q. I'm not sure what to do in my situation. I have been with my girlfriend of a year and 10 months and we used to live together up until last saturday. she was driving to work and got pulled over for driving with no license and no insurance she ...
A. 21 October 2006: I agree that you need to ask her all these things, but be very careful when you do it so that she doesn't just clam up and just end up saying what she thinks you want to hear.
Make it safe for her to 'come clean' about everything that has been goi... (read in full...)
Which is the best way to promote self esteem? Any ideas?
Q. Which is the best way to promote self steem?...
A. 21 October 2006: As someone who runs a self esteem group for women, I can say that it isn't something that happens overnight and it takes a lifetime to maintain a high feeling of self esteem.
First look at what you expose yourself to. Example, the people you hang... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of giving blood...will it hurt and is it dangerous as I'm only 15??
Q. dear all cupids, recently ive been thinking bout giving blood at my local blood bank but im scared its gonna hurt me is it? i hate needles and pain is it a good idea? or can it be dangerous to me im only 15? thanks xxx...
A. 21 October 2006: Yes, it will hurt a little, won't lie about that. The feeling of doing something so great makes the two seconds of pain totally worth it tho. A little known fact is that it is also good for your own body to give blood because I gives your body a ... (read in full...)
I am 16 and my parents are trying to stop me from going back to my abusive ex. Do I have rights?
Q. Me and my boyfriend split around .. 2 months ago he cheated on me alot and hit me and treated me bad. I was ok we didnt see each other or speak, i met osmeone and was happy. My ex rung me crying saying he missed me and never realised how muc...
A. 20 October 2006: If you don't want these babies, don't have them. I am unsure as to how you already know it is twins tho. If you are far enough along to have had an ultrasound to show that, are you not too far along to have an abortion at this point? My advice is ... (read in full...)
My sister is addicted to ice meth and we don't know what to do to help!
Q. I'm not sure if this is the place to ask, but maybe you can direct me. I have a 33 year old sister who is addicted to ice meth and has has 2 children. Children Protective Services will not help unless the children are being physically abused. We've ...
A. 20 October 2006: A few points...Don't depend on her going to rehab if you call the police. Jail is not the right place to get treatment for an addiction, but it does sometimes work to keep people a little more safe than they are keeping themselves. Jail is a ... (read in full...)
Do girls like it when a guy plays with their hair?
Q. i just wanna know do girls like it when guys play with their hair? i usually play with this girls hair. she never say's anything to me she doesn't move away, just she like it? how do i know if she likes it or not? any other flirting tips? i'm ...
A. 20 October 2006: I think it is pretty safe to say that yes, girls like it when you play with their hair...as long as you aren't messing it up! If they don't like it, their body language will tell you that. If they pull away is a pretty good indicator that they ... (read in full...)
We've decided to have sex....what turns girls on?
Q. me and my girlfriend have decided to have sex on weekend. we love each other. were both 16. she's has had sex before but i havent. she said she likes to have sex hard and fast. what does she mean? what turns girls on? and how do you know when they ...
A. 19 October 2006: A few things...she says she likes it hard and fast, that means exactly what it sounds like. She likes a hard penetration and a fast rhythm. From my experiences, this might be a little difficult for you on your first time. If she knows that you ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 years old and he left me for a 14 year old! How can I get over him?
Q. i have a really big problem im 17 an i split up with my ex bout 7 months ago who is 19 cuz he left me for a 14 year old who is now 15 but no matter how hard i try i cant get over him i work woth my dad at nites an he works there 2 an i like him more ...
A. 19 October 2006: Do you think it will make you feel better to tell him? DO you want to beback together with him? If it will help to get it off your chest and give you closure, then tell him how you felt but be clear about why you are doing it. You don't want him ... (read in full...)
I think this guy is just using my friend for sex and people are laughing at her! How do I break this to her?
Q. ok everyone i need some advice my friend is...or should i say was having a casual relationship with this guy since last year they didnt see each other all the time but she was definetly ok with that but now he doesnt want to see her anymore unless ...
A. 18 October 2006: Unfortunately there isn't much you can do, especially when it comes to a close friend that is in a situation like this. If you point out to her your concerns, she is probably just going to say you are jealous or something and that won't be good for ... (read in full...)
How do I impress guys?
Q. heyy im 14 and a freshman in highschool i take the train to and from school i go to an all girls school. on the train home alot of guys from an all boy school get on i no some of them but not well how do i impress them? it is hard because ...
A. 18 October 2006: This is going to sound really silly, but don't try to impress them, that never works.
Do clever things to get involved in their conversations and then when you are talking to them they will realize how amazing you are and the rest will come tog... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair...I don't feel the same about my husband and never want to leave my lovers to go home!
Q. I am married and im having an affair with a woman. we started out as friends then we became lovers. I dont know what to do our relationship started 18 months ago, i dont know if i should leave my husband. I've been married for 23 years lately i ...
A. 18 October 2006: What does your lover think? Is she in a relationship other than with you? I think the best way to answer this is, what would you want your husband to do if the roles were reversed. You can really do three things I guess. Either tell him and see... (read in full...)
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