I feel the need for constant reassurance - how do I stop this?
Q. Dear all, I'm just looking for some advice. I have a big problem relaxing when I meet a new guy. I met a guy the other week and we all met up with our friends last night for drinks. Although he's quiet we did get on and were holding hands and ...
A. 27 December 2009: I did mention that maybe he shouldn't have stopped over but agreed that we were both drunk and tired. He doesn't seem to be a pushy person and is quite shy and polite. I just need to relax and take it slowly. ... (read in full...)
I feel the need for constant reassurance - how do I stop this?
Q. Dear all, I'm just looking for some advice. I have a big problem relaxing when I meet a new guy. I met a guy the other week and we all met up with our friends last night for drinks. Although he's quiet we did get on and were holding hands and ...
A. 27 December 2009: Thanks for your answers guys. I'm afraid that I've spoiled things with this guy now. Don't want him thinking that I do that with every guy that I meet. Not sure what to do now because I would like to get to know this guy better.... (read in full...)
He called me by his ex's name and it hurts!
Q. hi my name is lana and just lastnight me and my boyfriend was talking and he called me by his exs name and he was with her for three years and has a 2 year old daughter with her we been togather for 1 year and im bout ready to have his son in 5 ...
A. 15 December 2009: Hi it's happened to me and probably countless others on this site. If she was a significant person in his life which she obviously was coz they had kids then it'll be hard to forget things that went on. It's annoying yes but I wouldn't lose sleep ... (read in full...)
Do you think he is just using me for sex?
Q. Theres this gyy he says he really likes me, we've been to the cinema once, and he only really texts me when he wants to meet up with me, and all he really does is pick me up, have sex with me then drop me home again. When i ask him to meet up he ...
A. 6 December 2009: Is the guy asking you questions about your life and trying to get to know you? If the answers are no then I'm afraid he is using you. Meet him one more time and don't have sex with him. See if he contacts you again, if not then dump the bozo. If he ... (read in full...)
I feel stuck in my own personal rut and I don't know how to get out of it!
Q. My boyfriend and I split up today. We had our first arguement 2 months ago and things went downhill from there. His response to the arguement was to ignore me for half a week, my response was feeling very insecure and felt I was walking on ...
A. 6 December 2009: Hi, you don't say how long you were with this man but to fall out over something so petty seems a little ridiculous on his part! Is there more to it I wonder or has he used this childish argument as an excuse to get out of the relationship. These ... (read in full...)
My life is in tatters with an ex that won't move on and a new guy who isn't that interested in me. I don't know what to do!
Q. My life is in tatters at the moment. I split up with my ex in july, mutual decision but since then it's been hard to move on as he is in daily contact with me. I have told him to cut contact but he can't go a day without texting me. The other wk I...
A. 16 November 2009: Thanks guys! Yes I have been replying to his texts out of some kind of misguided guilt. My ex throws the old he feels like killing himself line and I shouldn't let it get to me but it does.
I can understand why this guy is being guarded, I woul... (read in full...)
I'm 30 and I need to grow up, I've lost the love of my life!
Q. God ive f*****g ruined my life.or any chance of getting my girlfriend back. I tell u she is the best thing thats happened to me and i screwed it up. B4 i met her i slept around with lots of girls i mean nearly 100. I had nothing really ive got two ...
A. 6 August 2009: Hi, You have to be prepared for the fact she won't give you a third chance. You're messing with her life and if you are truly sorry and willing to put in that extra effort to change you need to do something about it. Think of the consequences if you ... (read in full...)
How do you finish when your partner gives you a handjob?
Q. How do you finish when your partner gives you a handjob? Whenever I'm giving my current partner a handjob he will always grab his penis as he's about to cum I suppose out of some kind of courtesy so he doesn't get all over my hand or the sheets or ...
A. 3 August 2009: Hi, I take it this is a relarively new relationship but in time he will relax and learn to let go a bit. Why don't you try more foreplay and relaxation techniques during it.... (read in full...)
I feel so lonely, I want to have more confidence and friends, please help!
Q. hi i need help. i feel so lonely all the time ive just come out of a very bad relationship and my self esteem is zilch-to be honest ive never had much im always so hard on myself , negative critical. i have only 1 good friend-that sounds terrib...
A. 18 July 2009: Hi,
Reading your question felt like reading about myself. I too only have one good friend and that relationship is a bit flimsy at the moment. I have just split up with someone and although it wasn't an abusive relationship and didn't end badly I am... (read in full...)
How can I break this cycle of breaking up?
Q. Well, i was with my ex for a year and a half and we broke up a year ago.. but since him everytime im in a relationship i break up with them after a month or two and i dont know why! i love bein in a relationship and they'v always treated me good.. i ...
A. 17 July 2009: I don't know how your long-term relationship ended but it sounds like you're getting in first and ending things before you get dumped to save yourself the hurt. ... (read in full...)
I'm desperate to get her back but I don't know how to play it!
Q. I have recently split up with girl of 3 months a couple of weeks ago - it ended on a really stupid note, basically a couple of arguments that got out of hand. I'm having trouble deciding whether she still likes me or not though - the only contact i ...
A. 17 July 2009: I would suggest you confront her about it. Make a bold romantic gesture and bite the bullet. What can you lose. If she doesn't want to know then I'm sure she'll stop turning up at your friends house to save you both from embarrassment. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Why is my period irregular all the sudden?
Q. Ok this may seem a bit odd, but i came on my period today, but its only been two weeks since my last one. Is this normal? I've been regular for ages now, why has it done this? i cant think of anything that could have changed my cycle (other than ...
A. 8 July 2009: Note sure...a bit obvious but could you be pregnant? Other ideas, are you dieting or underweight? Are you stressed, or medication? Go and see your GP thats a safe bet. Good luck... (read in full...)
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