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How do I make my LDR b/f understand that his actions make me feel like I'm not worth it?

Q.   Im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of three years. As of these last few months we both are very busy. We see eachother about twice a month, skype here and there, and We text maybe at the most for a couple hours a day everyday and ...

A.   12 October 2011: yes..it is a guy thing ..i have the exact same problem and situation like you..long distance since few months..before that when he was here we used to text all the time and meet on weekends...he is busy all the time .works double shift.money problem ... (read in full...)

Gyno thinks the pill is a good idea, but I don't want to tell my mom I'm sexually active

Q.   So today i went to the gynecologist and she said that the only thing that would help with the issue i have is birth control. My mom does not know that i am sexually active and isnt sure about the idea... I on the other hand want to go on the pill ...

A.   4 October 2011: look dear you are still a growing child ..i would advice you to not take any pills.use condoms and irregular period needs treatment not birth control pills!your gyno must be a quack..seriously.be wise don't do foolish things which would hamper your ... (read in full...)

Did she lie to me about being a virgin?

Q.   hi.. M 22yrs old n my g.f is 18.. She told me that she is a virgin but when we had sex.. She got such tight pussy but she didnt bleed but felt pain in another day.. She never played any sport nor cycle.. Is she lying to me? Plz tell me sm1.. Shall i ...

A.   27 September 2011: :D i didn't bleed the first time too!i have only one sexual partner in life ,my boyfriend..i am a very lazy person never did much sport and never 'inserted' anything inside! but i didnt bleed at all..but it was really tight and painful ,it took us 2 ... (read in full...)

His ex is a newly married good looking girl. What does it mean to us he checks her out on FB regularly?

Q.   We are just about to get married and I found out that my future husband is regularly visiting facebook profile of his ex who is also freshly married. He told me about her, that he left her as he couldn't imagine being with her for the rest of his l...

A.   27 September 2011: i honestly feel he's just curious to know about his ex's life.a survey done last year showed that facebook users searched and spied their life secretly through their profiles. i have done it too!and still do it lol !i love my partner like crazy ..... (read in full...)

He's moving away, and this could be our last chance of a relationship, help! Do I give it a chance?

Q.   Hey, any advice would be appreciated! right, first of all I'll tell you the basic story. I'm with this guy. I met him in college, he's similar to me in things like music, and our views on things, I get on well with his family and he does with min...

A.   25 September 2011: dont try to analyse too much and keep pondering on what is right and what is wrong..choose one with whom you are absolutely sure you are in love with.and stand by the one you choose!your choice should come spontaneously ,in this situation you might ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to used condoms which have passed their expiry date?

Q.   hey aunts, i just wanted to know; are condoms reliable when expired? cuz i heard that it depends where its kept; eg if its somewhere in a bathroom cubboard near a steam pipe it wud last less than one kept away in a dark cool locker or sutten.....

A.   25 September 2011: throw your pack of expired condoms..walk up to your nearest med store and buy new ones.or if it is so heart breaking to do that,keep some nappies in store they dont expire :)... (read in full...)

He thinks I'm cute and funny but he said he doesn't want a girlfriend!

Q.   I am in 8th grade and I've had this crush on a guy for about 4 months. He hasn't really showed any interest in me ,but my friends catch him staring at me when I have my back to him all the time. We used to text eachother all the time, but lately not ...

A.   25 September 2011: honey ,such a sweet age wish i could go back to being 13 :) he is only a kid...girls mature faster than boys mentally and physically.you are really young too..there's so much of this world you haven't seen.dont scare him away by asking him about it ... (read in full...)

How can I stop living in constant fear that he will cheat?

Q.   I've been in a pretty good relationship for the past 1 n a half year..he cares for me ,is very committed to me ,we are in love and we plan to marry in future.But i have fought with him twice about some random chats he had with girls on facebook ,i ...

A.   14 September 2011: there are also many girls in the past whom he lost as friends because they thought he's interested in them but then he got committed..and when he introduced me to them ..they started moving away from him..i told him its all your fault and the way ... (read in full...)

How can I stop living in constant fear that he will cheat?

Q.   I've been in a pretty good relationship for the past 1 n a half year..he cares for me ,is very committed to me ,we are in love and we plan to marry in future.But i have fought with him twice about some random chats he had with girls on facebook ,i ...

A.   14 September 2011: thank you so much for the inputs..:( so should i leave him..?i asked a few guy friends of mine..n they said its natural for guys to be like that online as it is for them to watch porn,..He grew up with girls all around him and says theres nothing ... (read in full...)

How can I stop living in constant fear that he will cheat?

Q.   I've been in a pretty good relationship for the past 1 n a half year..he cares for me ,is very committed to me ,we are in love and we plan to marry in future.But i have fought with him twice about some random chats he had with girls on facebook ,i ...

A.   14 September 2011: i'd like to add i'm 19 not 22 dunno why it shows so!..please help ..its affecting my day today life...and i keep imagining and speculating ways in which he might meet those girls he chatted with and end up doing something with them!or with someother ... (read in full...)

We had sex while I have my period, is he disgusted with me now? And can I get pregnant when I was on my period?

Q.   I had unprotected sex with my guy during the first day of my period .he's very afraid of blood and got turned of in the middle of it and then started acting weird. i didn't want to do it either but we are on a long dist. relationship and i feel he's ...

A.   14 September 2011: thanks a lot people :) ...everything fine.!... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but my girlfriend has been with 10 men already - and shown me a video of herself and an ex

Q.   me and my gf have been togehter for 6 months...she is my first gf whereas i'm her 11th bf...she has told me that shes been sexually active with all the 10 guys..i have had no past sexual experience...last week on my insistence she told me all about ...

A.   13 September 2011: omg ..whats wrong with you? leave her...point blank im sorry to say but the truth is that she's a slut!what sort of a person would hurt the partner by showing a video like that..she is so insensitive ...why on earth do you want her?... (read in full...)

We had sex while I have my period, is he disgusted with me now? And can I get pregnant when I was on my period?

Q.   I had unprotected sex with my guy during the first day of my period .he's very afraid of blood and got turned of in the middle of it and then started acting weird. i didn't want to do it either but we are on a long dist. relationship and i feel he's ...

A.   4 September 2011: @cathy :hmm :) thanks,yeah i did explain to him that i didn't bleed beacuse i'm hurt .its just the uterus lining etc. .i just hope he forgets it and doesn't carry it to bed on our next time !!... (read in full...)

The dilemma of my long-running relationship!

Q.   I'm 21 year old computers student. i've been in a pretty serious relationship for ever four years now. things were so serious that our parents knew each other, and although they didn't talk to us, they know that we both are going to marry some ...

A.   4 September 2011: okay!i'l tell you what some girls have a TWISTED BRAIN !!the good news here is she loves you..and in her mind she has it for taken that you won't leave her. has the problem just been that she doesn't like you talking about other girls? i had the... (read in full...)

We had sex while I have my period, is he disgusted with me now? And can I get pregnant when I was on my period?

Q.   I had unprotected sex with my guy during the first day of my period .he's very afraid of blood and got turned of in the middle of it and then started acting weird. i didn't want to do it either but we are on a long dist. relationship and i feel he's ...

A.   4 September 2011: hey birdynumnums !first of all thanks for the advice ...will never ever do this again!i myself used to have goosebumps if i ever thought of anyone having sex on their period,i dont know what made me suggest i guess the whole pressure that if he ... (read in full...)

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