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I don't know what to do. I just clicked with a girl 8 years younger than me!

Q.   Im a 24 year old guy. I recently met a 16 year old girl. Never in my life have I ever been attracted to a younger girl (all previous girlfriends where either same age as me or older). We get along amazingly and to be honest just clicked. The thing ...

A.   3 November 2005: Honestly, with all do respect wait until shes older. If you both care about one another enough you can. Let her know how you feel about the age difference, that way she doesn't think you just don't wanna be with her. This is very unlikely to happen, ... (read in full...)

We always seem to play our relationship by his 'rules'...

Q.   I volunteer to a lot of charities and tend to give up my time for them. But when I want to be with my boyfriend and he wants to be with me, I'm there. Thing is he says he loves me but we've broken up twice and gotten back together only once. No...

A.   3 November 2005: No, your not at all wrong. Obviously hes the dominant one in the relationship. Although this is very common does not mean its right. There should not be a dominant person in your relationship. Love is about comprimise, that means he is supposed to ... (read in full...)

What really turns my husband on is touch... I need suggestions!

Q.   My hubbie and I have been married for just over a year, and I just figured out that he is mostly turned on by touch. I've always had a greater sex-drive then him, and I always thought it was because i saved myself for marriage, while he had multiple ...

A.   3 November 2005: Not only could you give him sensual massages, but try to strip for him. Sext undies might not turn him on, try appearing in the doorway wearing something sexy while shaking your booty,and sensually touching him in certain areas. (use your ... (read in full...)

When I tried to break up with my boyfriend he threatened to kill himself or "make my life hard"...

Q.   Help, I have only been dating my boyfriend for three months and he has always been very kind to me, but now that I want to end the relationship, he has changed. There are 15 years between us and although it bothered me, I went along with it. I trie...

A.   3 November 2005: Take a deep breath, think about the situation your in. Obviously your bf has some major death issues. Being caught up in a dead end relationship with a suicidal man is very dangerous. Whatever u do please DO NOT break up with him in private. Make ... (read in full...)

I want to let this guy down easy. He wants a relationship that I just can't give him...

Q.   I kinda talked to this guy for about 3 months and then we ended up sleeping together and I actually took his virginity. Well we messed around a few more times, the problem is I have lost interest in him, but he hasn't in me. He is complete...

A.   3 November 2005: Break it as easily and kindly as possible. Don't be affraid to be firm with your decision though. My mistake was lettin my ex make me feel bad about dumpin him. I walked on eggshells, lied and deceived myself for a year cause he wouldn't take no for ... (read in full...)

Internet porn has become my partner's main sexual activity...

Q.   I know my partner has been looking at internet porn a lot. He has been since he first had a computer. To start with, I thought it was just a novelty for him. but now, even though we are living together, he seems to prefer porn to me. He knows I ...

A.   3 November 2005: Once again I must refer to the way men think. I seriously doubt your ugly, and i don't believe he'd using you. I know you don't like the idea of porn, but try sitting down him one afternoon and watching one with him. Now if he persits to lie about ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with the guy who cheated, just to make a point?

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 months cheated on me, and I can't move on or forget what happened, but I don't want this to end, I don't know what to do. Should I leave or stay?...

A.   3 November 2005: First off forget blaming yourself, or anyone else. It has been scientifically proven that one of the main reason men cheat is because they are wired that way. A man's primal instinct is to breed with multiple partners. My Boyfriend and I have bee... (read in full...)

She says that they're only friends from years ago, but her word hasn't been that great in the past!

Q.   My girlfriend of six years met up with a guy she met on the internet. She told me that he is a very good friend and that they have known each other for years. She has never told me anything about him and in my mind I think she is cheating on me. ...

A.   3 November 2005: Ok first breathe..has she given you any reason to think shes cheatin on u? Stayin out really late? Not talkin or touchin u as much as usual? Most of all..do u trust her? Relationships are based upon trust and friendship. If theres no trust ther... (read in full...)

My brother molested me, but I'm ashamed to admit it happened!

Q.   Hi, my name is Jamie. I am 16 years old. My big bro (20 years old) molersted me when I was 10. I thought it was OK at the time because he said it was, but now that I'm older I realised it's NOT. I'm awfully embarrassed about this, but it can't be...

A.   3 November 2005: hey there jamie. I completely understand how you feel. I was 11 and my bro was 15, he used to sneak into my room at night while i was asleep and do horrible things to me. This lasted until i was 14. Then about a year later my best friend raped me a... (read in full...)

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