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writes: My hubbie and I have been married for just over a year, and I just figured out that he is mostly turned on by touch. I've always had a greater sex-drive then him, and I always thought it was because i saved myself for marriage, while he had multiple partners. I thought he wasn't turned on because he had "been there done that" while it was still new/exicting for me. But he just recently told me that he doesn't really get turned on by me wearing sexy undies for him, but just me touching him. I'm lost... what can i do that will turn him on? I don't want to have to give him head every night. I should be enough. Any suggestions? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, babyjessieb +, writes (3 November 2005):
Not only could you give him sensual massages, but try to strip for him. Sext undies might not turn him on, try appearing in the doorway wearing something sexy while shaking your booty,and sensually touching him in certain areas. (use your imagination) also take the time to experiment with food during foreplay. If thats not touching then i dunno what is.
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reader, wishes +, writes (12 October 2005):
Touch! As he said! Try giving him a relaxing oil massage. Or stroking his chest working your way downwards. You dont always have to give him head. Maybe start with softly touching him, (doesnt have to be sexual places) this may be enough to get him in the mood before you have sex. Best wishes.x Remember to take your time and just enjoy each other.
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reader, badjelli +, writes (12 October 2005):
Talk Talk Talk! Commnication is the biggest sex toy we all have!!!!
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