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Hey There,

I'm 16, which is quite young, but only in numbers. Since I lost my mother in 2004, I have never felt my actual age. All of my friends range from 16-23, I am the youngest in my groups, but everyone thinks that I'm in their age range. I am also the one that everyone comes to for advice. Since I was 12, I have been to hell and back, through ups and downs, Teen Drama, horrible relationships and more. I feel that I can help people because I have been through quite alot. When I answer questions, it's because I can relate to them and the person who wrote it. I don't judge people based on what they write. Actaully, I don't judge people at all because I don't want to be judged. I live in Ontario, Canada. I haven't been far in the world, either. Currently, I am seeing someone. He's a major sweet-heart and treats me like gold (usually!) He is actually the first guy that has treated me this way! (all the other men were pricks). If anyone ever needs some advice, Don't be afraid to ask, and don't NOT ask me just because "I'm young". I'm a friendly listener, very open-minded on situations and I will try to best that I can to relate to what you have to say. I really enjoy helping people...it's like, it makes me feel that I have made a difference in someone's life, and that is one of the best feelings, i think, anyone should experience.

I want to thank those who have answered my questions whether they were good or bad. It makes me feel good knowing that someone sat down and took the time to read my question and answer it. Thank you*

So with a simple "Hey" I wanted all of you's to know that I'm always here to help!!

Ciao* for Now = )

Friends son, off limits or not?

Q.   Is it ok to sleep with your friends son? Hope you can help, I recently made friends with someone who i met though mutual friends and she has just moved into my village. I have been to her house a few times and met her son. We went out the other ni...

A.   18 December 2006: Hey there, Well the way I see it, If his Mother and your friend was ok with the fact that you two kissed, perhaps you should speak with her, not to ask permission, but to see how she would react if one of her friends dated her son. Also, it's a g... (read in full...)

Had more sex than usual last w/e...now I'm really sore in the genitalia. Any advice?

Q.   I had more sex than usual last weekend. I'm on the patch, so most of the sex was unprotected. I was really sore in the genitalia area...like as if it was swollen. And since Monday, I get the sudden itches down there. Sometimes it burns when I ...

A.   14 December 2006: Hey, again. It's not like I slept around. It was with my boyfriend (which I forgot to mention). I just wanted to thank you for your answer. I just wanted a little heads up of what it might be before I go and get tested so I can let them have an idea... (read in full...)

Tell me--is this guy just being cheeky or is he actually a sleaze?

Q.   I met this really cool guy a few weeks ago but we've only spoken a few times. Then out of the blue he asks if I want to meet up with him. I agreed and asked him to arrange something but instead he made really obvious cheesy chat up lines about sex. ...

A.   14 December 2006: Hey There, Seeing from your question, I think that this guy is a sleaze! I have been played over and over and over again because they fake that they like me, and use me until the get what they want. If you guys have only talked a few times, and then... (read in full...)

I'm a size 6-8 but I am getting a pudgy belly and I'm worried. Any ideas on how to lose it fast?

Q.   This may sound like the most pathetic question ever but its really gettin me down! im and 18 and im a size 6-8 BUT i cant stop eating all of a sudden and now im getting a pudgy belly and i hate it! I feel really insecure and concious wearing certain ...

A.   14 December 2006: Hey There, I have always had problems with my weight. One week I'll weight 150, then the next week I'll be 8 - 10 pounds heavier. What helps me, when I'm not feeling lazy, is a brisk walk atleast 20-30 minutes a day. Drinking lots of water help... (read in full...)

I love him a lot..do you think I should lose my virginity to him?

Q.   hey, I'm 15 years old. My boyfriend is 17. but he doesnt live here, he lives in another country.. i love him alot and he does too. We both think we are each other's ones! well i was thinking about losing it to him, do u think i should ? thnx...

A.   14 December 2006: Hey There, For me, when it comes to the internet, I'm actually quite scared. I have read articles and watched news stories about young girls who claim that they were "in love" with someone that they met on the internet. There were no happy endi... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and dating. What is the best time for me to start having sex?

Q.   hello, i am 12 years old and 13 next month me and my bf have been talking about sex and are thinking of doing it but he as told me he has produce sperm before and ive started my period .my mum said if me or my sister got pregnat she wouldnt have ...

A.   14 December 2006: Hey There, I'm going to have to agree with the other answers. Hun, if you have to ask, then no, you're not ready. This may sound bad, but I gave it up when I was 13 and I regret it way too much. I thought I loved him, but I didn't. Looking back... (read in full...)

How do I convince my bf, that christmas is a time of love and family..not a time to be alone and sad?

Q.   Hi everyone, basically my bf has just told me he wants to spend xmas alone due to a rough childhood. This is our second xmas together and he told me that last yr was very hard and he hates this time of year due to bad experiences in his family at ...

A.   14 December 2006: Hey There, Personally, if I was in that situation, I wouldn't push it on him too hard. Over-coming bad experiences is a long and rough process. I do see where you are coming from though. Perhaps if you were to just let him know, and explain once... (read in full...)

What are the signs that a girl fancies you?

Q.   What are the signs that a girl fancies you?...

A.   14 December 2006: Hey! Well I think, too, that it varies from girl to girl. I know that when I like a guy, I giggle alot and smile tunz!! I'm not saying to try this, but if the girl shows that she's jelous if you mention another girl, then it's a very high poss... (read in full...)

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