How do I get away from my verbally-abusive, drug dependant ex boyfriend so I can get on with my life?
Q. Sorry, this is kind of a long one, but it is quite a story, so hopefully someone will read it and give me some advice. I am almost 30 and have been with my 26 year old boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. I moved in with him 3 years ago. After I moved in, ...
A. 8 December 2005: Maybe you should stay out of each others way, you said your flat is unavailable until the 1st of January and he is away at the hospital at the moment, is the house you are both living in in both your names? Maybe you should seek legal advice and ... (read in full...)
Is my package too small and does size really matter?
Q. I am curious about the old saying "Size doesn't matter". I am considered average size at 6 inches(from what I've read anyway), but find myself very insecure thinking that I am small. I am quite thick, but fear that I should be longer. I have ne...
A. 7 December 2005: If size matters to a women that much then we all no what that women is! Although there are certain spots that can be hit if a penis is larger! Many women don't actually climax through just penetrative sex, so its good that you use diferent t... (read in full...)
I got drunk and did a sex video-my ex is blackmailing me with it! Help.
Q. I got really drunk at a friends house and ended up having a 4 some w/ 2 guys and a girl. We all took turns video taping it and now Im in trouble. My ex bf, who is also my son's dad, was in the video and it was his camera we were using. My problem ...
A. 7 December 2005: You haven't done anything wrong! So what you made a dirty tape with a few friends?! You where drunk and experimenting, your ex is out of order and you should tell your partner what is happening! If your partner hates you for something ... (read in full...)
I'm male and I'm 15...curious on how to masturbate?
Q. I'm a 15 year old male, and have never mastubrated before. I was curious on how....
A. 7 December 2005: I take it you mean mastubating on yourself? You don't have to if it doesn't feel right but everyone gets curious. Just do what feels good, experiment with yourself to see what you like, and if you don't like it then no worries! :-)... (read in full...)
My fiance's ex says she's pregnant. Is this just a stunt to get him back?
Q. My boyfriend and I have known each other for ten years and have dated for about a month and a half now. We plan on marrying in a year. We have a very open and honest relationship and recently he told me that his ex fiancee informed him that she is ...
A. 31 October 2005: Many people do not have a relationship with their babies other parent. If he loves you like he said he does then he shouldn't feel the need to leave you.
If she is pregnant then they will have to come to some sort of access agreement.
Now ado... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend wrong to visit other guys, or am I just paranoid?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15. We've been together for about a year and 3 months and were very happy together, but now she has started going to other boys' houses. She says they're just friends but I can't help feeling jealous. When I told her ...
A. 31 October 2005: Its hard to say if she is doing something wrong as we don't know what she is doing.
Its fine for her to have male friends and for her to go and see them, but if she has something to hide then it is wrong.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 already and still have never had a boyfriend...
Q. Please help! I'm a 14 year old girl, brown hair, slightly attractive, nice figure, killer personality and yet I've never had a bf. I always fancy someone but I'm far too shy to ask them out and I won't let my mates ask them out for me. This is ...
A. 31 October 2005: The only advice I can give you is 'If you want it.... YOU go get it!'... (read in full...)
He keeps pushing me away because he's not ready for a relationship, but we ARE in a relationship...
Q. I am in a relationship in which I met the guy in college, dated off and on for 8 years and then I moved away. 10 years later I returned to the same city and we have resumed our relationship. The problem now is that he has gone through a terrible ...
A. 31 October 2005: Well I think the first thing that needs to happen for the relationship to work is to seek help for his drinking problem. That is probably the main cause to his nastyness and it will never work whilst he has that problem.
When he is receivin... (read in full...)
I want the girl I'm interested in to take me seriously...
Q. I have been at university for a month and met a girl in my flat that I'm really attracted to. She has a boyfriend at another university, who she has been with for 3 years. I try to talk to her as much as possible but although we can talk and laugh, ...
A. 31 October 2005: You don't want to 'make' her spend time with you, if she likes your company then she will spend time with you because she wants to!
If she has a boyfriend then back off a bit and be a friend to her!... (read in full...)
Does the neighbour girl mean what she said about having no boyfriend? Should I have a go?
Q. Hello, Ok this does sound stupid but it really makes me mad right. I am 16 male live in England. My next door neighbour is 30yr old women has a middle sister of I think 27 and a younger sister of 24. Now!!! I really fancy the younger one 24...
A. 31 October 2005: Its not a case of 'have a go', if you like her and want to wait then fine.
Let her know how you feel when you are ready and see where things go. Men and women can have purely plutonic relationships, she may just like you company, she may fancy yo... (read in full...)
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