I'm suffering from depression-can anyone please give some advice?
Q. Can anyone help. I suffer from depression. Have been bullied at work, reported it to my bosses, nothing happened, reported it to HR and still nothing happened. I collapsed with stress on 31.10.08 and been off work ever since. Not a card from work, ...
A. 23 January 2009: I've been here before with my wife. Are you a member of a union? If you are then contact them immediately.
If not then it could be a big problem although H/R are failing in their duty if they do nothing. Suggest you write to them and demand t... (read in full...)
Boyfriend dictating having a break caught me unawares… Should I trust his reasons and wait for him or protect myself and try to have some fun on the side?
Q. I am so confused and need help. My long term boyfriend has asked for a break recently. We have been fighting because of being frustrated with life issues ( we work opposite shitfs, we don't get to see each other that much, he still lives in at his ...
A. 8 November 2008: He wants a break so it is entirely up to you if you go out with someone else. He can't complain if you get attached to someone else can he?
On the other hand to have sex with someone just to get at him is wrong and would probably only make you... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't know I used to be gay. I want to tell her but honestly have no idea of how.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for the best part of two years. We love each other to bits and we're going skiing in Canada over Christmas, just the two of us. But the thing is that before i met her i used to be openly gay. Not camp or ...
A. 7 November 2008: Don't be silly you can't be gay at one time then straight the next. It doesn't work like that. If you mean you experimented with a man but now you realise it was just that then fair enough but believe me you are born gay and nothing will change ... (read in full...)
He confessed he had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip!
Q. We have been married for last 6 years and I would like to say happily until last week when my husband confessed that he had sex with a prostitute recently on an official trip. I have sort of forgiven him and have been trying to come to terms with ...
A. 7 November 2008: I think the fact that you initiate most of the sex is the answer here. Perhaps he feels a little intimidated by this? A prostitute is not demanding and certainly doesn't expect any kind of sexual pleasure from the act. It's just a job to her and ... (read in full...)
He's showing me videos of his wife and I'm not sure how to react.
Q. Hi. I am a man in my 30's, single and have had little sexual experience. My main form of relief is masturbation over pornography which, at times, can be a little dull and lonely. On the odd occasion I watch pornography with a close male frien...
A. 6 November 2008: I think he was testing you when he showed the video. They are either swingers or he wants you to shag his wife for either his pleasure or both.
Bring it up by asking how would his wife react if she knew you had seen the video?
I believe but... (read in full...)
He thought my Halloween costume was too sexy to wear without him with me.
Q. Need help my boyfriend travels out of town about every other month for a month at a time. When he leaves town I am very open and honest with him when I go out, he ask many details even down to how I did my hair. He is upset with me currently ...
A. 6 November 2008: Agree with Phil. This guy is bad news and a control freak. Do you really need this at your age?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I decided to become a D/s couple -- but my career?...
Q. Hello. I've just moved out of my parents house, and am living on my own (with my boyfriend of 20 months) for the first time. It's been three months now. So we're both attending college, and I'm quite confused about my options, and life in ge...
A. 6 November 2008: You totally lost me. Haven't a clue what you are talking about. Sounds like Stepford wives to me. Master? Is this some kind of sado masochist type thing?
Whatever turns you on and all that but only if you are sure it is what you want and not ... (read in full...)
My man of 8 years will not even try to have sex with me.
Q. Dear Cupid: What have I done? My man of 8 years will not even try to have sex with me. He won't even flirt, act interested or touch me. Since our daughter was born he has regularly slept in another room, and he likes it that way. I think it...
A. 6 November 2008: Videos, sex toys? Get rid and phone me lol. He is gay and only married you to keep up appearances and produce a baby so his family don't suspect. Once duty fulfilled he went back to doing his own thing.
So many closet gays, why don't they jus... (read in full...)
I can't stop loving a man who I know is probably just using me!!
Q. I can't stop loving a man who I know is probably just using me!! I keep in touch with a guy who knows I love him but he only rings when he wants money! - We hardly ever meet up as we both live quite a distance from each other - but I always liv...
A. 6 November 2008: Can you lend me fifty quid? Well why not, he is doing exactly that isn't he?
With respect, some women can be so gullible. Do you actually have any kind of physical relationship with this guy? Does he even kiss you? How can you love someone ... (read in full...)
Ejaculation problem!?
Q. Hi all, A recent girlfriend commented one that day that I ejaculate quite a lot and that it probably isn't a good thing - she certainly didn't seem to like it! After reading a few posts on this site, I decided, in the name of science (!) to d...
A. 6 November 2008: Why would it be a bad thing? Like penis size we are all slightly different. A lot of women would probably think "wow I made him do that" and be happy. I don't know why this girl would be put off by it but you didn't say where you ejaculated?
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How do I gain confidence so that I can talk to men?
Q. I am a 25 year old female who doesn't have any friends and my work colleagues don't really like me, I am just someone who is there. I have never had a boyfriend and I feel awkward around the opposite sex, I have tried to come out of my shell by ...
A. 5 November 2008: Why do you pull away? I'm no expert but if you want relationships then you have to put something into it as well as taking.
You will not be foolish if you go to see your GP. They have seen and heard everything there is to hear and see. I expect i... (read in full...)
I'm confused - I want him back, but he only calls when he's drunk.
Q. I was with my boyfriend for 7 months and things had been hard on us, as alot of our relationship was spent apart but I thought it would all be worth it as come September we would be together properly (we would both be at the same university). Don't ...
A. 5 November 2008: A classic case of low self esteem on his part or he is confused about his sexuality.
It is possible he is gay and you love him because you feel safe with him as most women do with gays. Don't confuse love with affection.
I suppose if I am ... (read in full...)
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