A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello.I've just moved out of my parents house, and am living on my own (with my boyfriend of 20 months) for the first time. It's been three months now.So we're both attending college, and I'm quite confused about my options, and life in general.You see, just before we moved out of our parent's houses and moved in together, my boyfriend and I decided to become a D/s couple. I absolutely love it. It makes me happier than I've ever been. It really is amazing...But my career path is so fuzzy to me. Where am I going in life? What do I want to do? How can I best serve Master?Right now I'm in a horticulture course, but find that it's a bit too masculine for me. I know that sounds rather odd, but don't think I'm being prejudiced. I'm not saying that it isn't right for females in general. I'm saying I don't think it's right for me specifically.I've been thinking about taking a floristry course after I'm done horticulture (or even before) and working in the floristry field (likely part-time) after college until Master and I are stable enough to raise a family. At that point I would stop working and become a homemaker...This sounds right to me. Looking after my Master and children. I think it's the right path, but I'd like to know:What do homemakers do once their children move out? Do they re-enter the work force? It's odd because I never hear of people in this particular situation.I think I'm just trying to find stability. College is stressful and I want to feel that I'm on the right path in life.
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reader, Awiserowl  +, writes (6 November 2008):
You totally lost me. Haven't a clue what you are talking about. Sounds like Stepford wives to me. Master? Is this some kind of sado masochist type thing?
Whatever turns you on and all that but only if you are sure it is what you want and not just what he wants.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (4 November 2008):
 If you will pardon my attempt to analyze you,I'll try to give you some advice. It appears to me that you are experimenting. Perfectly normal for your age. Enjoy it! but, be careful. (daddy speaking) You are also impatient and want to know it all right now. Sorry, you won't. Nobody does.
Specifically, you are wondering about your career path. Nurturing is a very feminine emotion. Horticulture is a nurturing field. It may not help you keep your manicure perfect, but it does have a connection to your femininity.
I applaud your determination to be a homemaker. Many women find it necessary to reenter the workforce sooner than they had planned. Using gardening as a hobby you can keep current with your education and skills in horticulture and floristry.
Enjoy the Journey
FA
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