27 and starting to secretly worry about dying alone! - in need of hope.
Q. Hi guys just looking for a little hope I guess. What I want to know is if anyone believes in true love any more? I have been cheated on and messed around with more times than I care to remember. Despite all this I KNOW i am a good person and deserve ...
A. 4 February 2008: Hey there. Reading your message I felt like I could have written it myself! I think everybody is secretly worried that they won't find the one, and it's SO hard when you've been messed around by people you thought would never treat you badly. Life ... (read in full...)
How can I get my dad to allow me a bf??
Q. My dad won't let me have a boyfriend and i'm 13. What can i do to allow me to have a boyfriend? He said i could do something called courting and thats when i invite a boy over my house to watch TV and my dad questions the hell out of him; that is ...
A. 2 February 2008: 13 is still very young. You have plenty of time for all that jazz when you get older. Your father is clearly very protective of you, and you're lucky to have someone who cares for you that much.
If you really feel strongly about it, you should t... (read in full...)
Torn between two men and when something goes wrong I always run to the other one.
Q. I have two men in my life and can't choose between them. It is causing me great turmoil, so much so, I have lost my job and I am overall not handling things well. I had (guy 1) as the end all be all. Completely fallin' in love with him and wanted t...
A. 2 February 2008: I feel for you, it sounds like you've been through a lot at a very young age. But as dearkelja said, if guy 1 couldn't be there for you when you were going through tough times, he's he really somebody you want to spend the rest of your life with? It ... (read in full...)
Would love to go out with the counter girl but am too shy to ask.
Q. Hi, Over 6months ago i started visiting my local bank as id moved house. I really started liking one of the counter girls and when i was lucky enough to be served by her we use to have a friendly chat normal stuff. I've really started liking h...
A. 2 February 2008: Difficult...why don't you just slip her a note saying 'here's my number...call me if you're interested'? Might be a bit easier than asking her directly if that's what you're nervous about. Also, just to check, how do you know for sure she's single? ... (read in full...)
I'd like to find that special person, but paradoxically... I'm scared, after my last relationship.
Q. This is the third question I've posted. I was in a four year relationship which ended nearly 2 years ago. I'm basically over it...but it's taken me THAT long. I believe I've really grown. The only thing is, I've noticed something really strange ...
A. 30 January 2008: I think it's natural to be scared, especially if you've been with someone for a long time. I too have just come out of a 4 year relationship, and although it was much more recent, I still have problems even looking guys in the eyes. I think you need ... (read in full...)
How can I make the break-up with my fiance as easy as possible??
Q. I want to break up with my fiancee of 3yrs, i love her and all but i know i am too young to spend the rest of my life with her. I want to date other people in the future after all the dust has settled between us. My question is where do i begin? ...
A. 25 December 2007: I feel sorry for you, but you are doing the right thing in thinking about trying to do it in the nicest possible way. My boyf of 4 years and I have just split up, and it was completely out of the blue - he did it by email (admittedly we are on ... (read in full...)
What do I do now? I'm lost!
Q. Any advice right now would be so greatly appreciated...My boyfriend of 4 years has just broken up with me. I am absolutely devastated, and I really didn't see it coming. We got together at the start of uni, and graduated in the summer. He is now in ...
A. 22 October 2007: Thank you guys, lots of useful advice there...I really do appreciate it. It's good of you to give your time up like this, and I thank you. It's great to get different points of view from people who don't know him. The hardest thing is that I ... (read in full...)
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