Should I help him or leave him to deal with it?
Q. Should I feel smug about this - after me and my ex broke up he slept with another girl (he called it re-bound sex but he broke up with me) anyway I found out about this when I rang his phone and she picked it up and had the great pleasure of telling ...
A. 10 February 2009: Let him sort out his own mess. He got himself into it...so it's his responsibility to get himself out. He's just using you by the sounds of things cause he probably knows how you still feel about him. ... (read in full...)
What kind of questions should I ask to find out more about him?
Q. anyone plwease help!i am 24years old and meet a man through internet,i think he is the one i have been looking for around the world and now i have found him.The problem is,i am staying in Lesotho and he is in JHB.He keeps on telling me that he ...
A. 10 February 2009: If he wants to meet up with you so badly he'll find a way to visit you hun. Don't take the chance of just going after this guy on your own. Meet him on your own turf. If you are able to go see him, take a trusted friend with but don't go on your ... (read in full...)
Scared stiff of turning 30 anyone have any stories?
Q. can any one tell there stores dealing with fact hobbible fact being the dreading how did you cope with it.i,d love to stay in 20s becasue i never really had chance no freinds ,no social life,no boyfreind i eveny people just strating out in there ...
A. 23 January 2009: I just accepted turning 30. Nothing you can do about it. I can honestly tell you, I'm more comfortable in my own skin now than I have ever been in my life. My confidence has shot through the roof and through this, I'm attracting people into my life. ... (read in full...)
Eight years ago and I still think of my ex
Q. How can I still have feelings for an ex, when its over 8 years ago? I am currently with someone else, for quite some time, but i often think about the other guy, often think what it would of been like to still be going out with him, i often have ...
A. 15 January 2009: Other readers are going to tell you to move on and get on with life. It's just not that easy. You try to forget but something just makes you think about them more. He must have been something special for you to still think about him 8 years on. ... (read in full...)
Swingin' bachelor dating a single Mom - I'm not a family man, can this work?
Q. So, I've found the almost perfect woman and we've been dating a year now. She's the best g/f I've ever had. I always had a rule against dating single moms, but when I met her, I chose to break that rule and now I'm in love w/ her, but I can not ...
A. 26 December 2008: Okay, the first thing you have to consider are the ages of the kids. As she's a single mom, I will take it that she's their main caregiver. Kids tend to want to be with their main caregiver 24/7. My son's like that with his dad now. But as they get ... (read in full...)
I'm so disappointed by my guy's x-mas present!
Q. This Christmas I am so upset. I know it sound shallow but I got my boyfriend of 3 years a really nice skateboard (which was a very thoughtful and expensive gift) because he uses his really old beat up one everyday. The board I got him is amazing and ...
A. 26 December 2008: Christmas has become to commercial it's not funny. People are more worried about what they're going to get or got and not about the people they're spending the holiday with. There are other people out there who don't know the meaning of receiving ... (read in full...)
Too old for a first boyfriend
Q. is 30 years old too old for a first boyfriend and first kiss,i know i am pathetic...
A. 26 December 2008: Life has not passed you by. YOu're only 30. Some people still consider that to be young. I'm 31 and still catching the eye of young guys and I'm not exactly a supermodel. Get out there, chin up and meet people. Other people love people with ... (read in full...)
Should I send this to my ex?
Q. to cut a long story short, i want to get with my ex link again but he's being long about it even though he said that he wanted a second chance..he said he needed time to think but i don't want to wait, could i send him this text; u cool? i real...
A. 26 December 2008: He'll come back if he's serious about wanting to and ready to.... (read in full...)
I don't understand my husband
Q. Hello, I have been with my husband almost 7years, we have two boys 4 and 2. Well last year he started to changed on me. snapping at everything I say, do or don't do. smashing things up, then one time he says he is going to drive me crazy enough to ...
A. 26 December 2008: Deep down inside, you have the strength to get past this. You are an intelligent woman who was lucky enough to see the signs before it seriously gets out of hand. Your husband seems to be like the type who will start an argument for the sake of ... (read in full...)
Why is it so unfair? Why do I get treated so badly?
Q. does any thinks this is unfair?? guys reject me and hate me all the time.The guys who reject me always find a NEW girlfriend and NEW JOB even if a few months! but me i get nothing only yet another broken and cold rejection and only good things...
A. 22 December 2008: What you need to do first of all is to start loving yourself. You don't need someone else to do that for you.The greatest love starts from within. Once you do that then you will see that everyone wants to be with you. It's funny but people want to ... (read in full...)
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