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We met up, got a room & had sex! No protection.

Q.   I had unprotected sex with a woman over the weekend. We just met up, got a room and we ended up having sex. The issue is that I finished inside her and she didn't think much about it either. I did mention to her that I was about to finish and she ...

A.   7 April 2012: Pregnancy is not the only result of unprotected sex, there are all sorts of INCURABLE sexually transmitted diseases out there and AIDS/HIV is not the only one. If you were thinking, "she doesn't look like a person with an STD", people don't usually ... (read in full...)

Is the age difference a big deal?

Q.   So I'm 17 going on 18 and this girl and I really like each other. But the problem is her parents won't let her date till she's 16 which will be in September. So we have been like talking and hanging out and everything but her parents still don't ...

A.   7 April 2012: Her parents have lived to and passed your age. Anything that you can think to tell them, they have most likely already heard(and probably said it themselves). Respect them and leave the girl alone.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend said even though marrying and having children with me would muddy his bloodline, he would overlook it!

Q.   Im a 26 year old british asian female, my 31 year old bf is a white american male. We have been together for a few months and recently he expressed a desire to have kids one day in the future. Of course this is great! I would love children with ...

A.   7 April 2012: What are you still doing with him? I mean come on, your self esteem cannot be that low. Unless of course this question is a joke. He's poisonous and the last thing any psychologically stable woman would do is have a child with someone with an ... (read in full...)

Should I wait for a text back? Am I being paranoid?

Q.   So I've been talking to this guy for a while now and we went on one date and three weeks later we hung out. I know he works a lot. He works 12 hour shifts at his one job at night and 12 hours at his volunteer job a night or two during the week. ...

A.   6 April 2012: It's friday today, if he hasn't texted you, it is likely he forgot to text back. You should text him to say hi and ask what's up. I mean texting him 4 days later does not seem desperate in my opinion.... (read in full...)

17 years old (almost 18 now) and never been approached by a guy

Q.   I know that 17 is perhaps a bit too young to be worrying about relationships and men (and I usually don't), but it's come to my attention that not a single guy has ever approached me, at least with any romantic intentions. I'm in my second year of ...

A.   6 April 2012: I used to be and still am in the same position. I'm 20 and since the age of 15ish/16ish only really old or unattractive(in my opinion) men(not boys) seem to approach me. When I was in secondary school and sixthform, non of the boys ever approached ... (read in full...)

What are the tell tale signs a girl is or has cheated on you?

Q.   What are tell tale signs that a girl is or has cheating on you? And is there a crafty way of making her confess?...

A.   6 April 2012: Speaking from my pov, there are no tell tail signs. If she does not want to be caught, chances are she never will be. I know I won't.... (read in full...)

Friends with benefits, what do you think?

Q.   Me and a friend of mine have been speaking for a little while and we got onto the question of how fun it would be to have a friends with benefits and before we knew it we were discussing actually going through with it, but i have never done ...

A.   6 April 2012: I think that it is a horrible, horrible, horrendous idea. I don't understand why people do not understand that having sex with another human being is sharing part of yourself(and I don't just mean physically) with that human being. Trust me, you ... (read in full...)

He is supposed to get to know me better, instead he adds my facebook contacts

Q.   From the title of this question one could guess that I am 14, I am not, I am just baffled at guy's behavior - this guy asked me out a few times in the span of a few months, we went out twice but he didn't seem that interested so I let it go, then he ...

A.   5 April 2012: If it bothers you that he added your friend(which i'm assuming he did not previously know), just make your contacts private so that only you can see them. I personally won't cut him out of my life if I were you. I will just stop being so ... (read in full...)

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