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How can I make him and his kids take me seriously?

Q.   my fiance lives with me, and due to some unfortunate circumstances, his 2 sons (ages 6,7) came too. I have 2 kids myself. He doesn't parent them, they are rude and disrepectful to me. Sometimes my fiance is rude too. He thinks it's a womans job to ...

A.   13 December 2006: Wow . . . sounds like you put up with alot. Is it worh it? It sounds like you are already disenchanted with him, are you asking for permission to dump him? Go ahead girl, you don't need to be a mother to 5 kids. "My fiance lives with me, and ... (read in full...)

I'm 13, he's 16 - I want a normal relationship w/ him but it's impossible b/c of our parents!

Q.   Hi, I have a 16yr old bf and im 13, we cant tell our mums because of the age difference. But his mum found out we were meant to meet but my mum hasnt mentioned anything. We love each other so much and he has not asked for sex once. But i want...

A.   13 December 2006: Talk to your mom, you may be surprised with her reaction. Assuming the worst will keep you and your bf apart or cause you agony for no reason. ... (read in full...)

I don't want a heart anymore

Q.   i fell in love almost four years ago, it was the first, i had never been in a long term relationship before and it hit me like rain on a window pain. i needed teaching every way to act, i found myself in situations that i know know were disrespec...

A.   13 December 2006: In the process of breaking up of a long-term relationship, my ex boyfriend/fiance asked me to read a short story. It was of a man reaching out to his best friend. In the story, he asked his friend for advice on how to get a girlfriend he wants... (read in full...)

We're engaged.. He won't see me if there's no-one around in case he has sex before marriage with me!

Q.   i've been dating my boyfriend for two years now and we are planning our wedding mid-february.We are in our early twenties and have great careers. I love him with all my heart but because i'm still a virgin(he is not), he doesnt like me coming o...

A.   7 December 2006: You have already gone all this time refraining from sex. What is another couple of months? The idea that it may be a form of punishment is almost a little absurd, considering that you two have not been doing for at least two years already. ... (read in full...)

I am 13. Is it ok to date a 16 yo?

Q.   is going out with a 16 year old guy weird.if im only 13?...

A.   7 December 2006: Hmm. . . It's tough. You like him and he likes you, but he's in high school everyday dealing with high schooly people and high schooly issues. You are in middle school dealing with middle school and middle schooly people and middle schooly issues. ... (read in full...)

He said "my girlfriend" and "your boyfriend" - does that mean we're back together?

Q.   My ex and I have been spending a lot of time together lately. This past weekend he was making comments towards me like "My girlfriend" and "Your boyfriend". My question is, is this his way of saying that we're back together without exactly saying ...

A.   7 December 2006: Maybe his way of saying that is to let you know that you are in his good graces. However, who is to say he is in yours? I mean it sounds like you two broke up amicably, great for you two . . . I still haven't quite mastered that yet. If you did ... (read in full...)

I want kids but he does not. We're very happy otherwise, so should we split?

Q.   Hi everyone, I have just read questions very similar to my own but I still feel compelled to write. I have been with my partner for nearly 3yrs and I have to say that he is the most kind, sincere and funny man I have ever met. I am very much in ...

A.   7 December 2006: You know what I feel for you. I am in a similar situation, only I just turned 29. I can't give you an answer, but I can tell you my situation and how I feel. I was in a previous relationship with someone for 7 years and we both wanted children, ... (read in full...)

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