I don't think that losing my virginity is a big deal. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. is it wrong that i really and honestly dont believe that losing my virginity is a big deal? im 21 and quite honestly ready, but am not interested in love. i have a fear of the whole thing but im sick of being inexperienced. my friends think its odd ...
A. 9 July 2006: My dear girl,
You obviously have a lot of self respect, you also need self reassurance, and self confidence.
You show the respect by the way you are (waiting for the right guy) in my books anyhow.
Don't be influencewd by others who badger you ~... (read in full...)
Friends-with-benefits with a guy from school -- but I want less sex and more respect!
Q. Hi, just wondering if you had any suggestions on how to gain respect from a guy? Quite lengthy, but please take the time to answer. The thing is, last year me and this hot guy got together one time because he thought I was nice looking. I had k...
A. 7 July 2006: You will have to obtain more self respect, self reassurance, and self confidence - Forget the current B/F, he sounds like he is not worthy of your friendship.
To show you have more self confidence ~ weaqr a smile...... (read in full...)
My BF asks me to get on my knees and beg him to be gentle before sex!
Q. I have been having sex with my boyfriend for the past 3 months or so, but recently, before sex, he has been asking me to get down on my knees and beg him to be gentle (as that turns him on)...what does this mean? Why does he like me doing that??...
A. 7 July 2006: You are in moral danger ~ I suggest you drop this sleeze before he places your life in danger any further.
Nobody should have to be forced to adhere to his demamnds, if he is like that now imagine what your future would be like with him ~ you won'... (read in full...)
Tough times in my life, but no one to talk to!
Q. I am having a really tough time. My boyfriend just broke up with me and I just found out that my uncle passed away and he and I were really close! I am not doing OK. I feel like I have no one to talk to or that no one cares and I'm sick of it. I...
A. 6 July 2006: My dear,
I know of the agony of losing a loved one, rest assured time heals all wounds.
Try to keep yourself occupied on other things to avoid the anguish you are feeling.
God bless you, and keep you safe...
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I think I need to lose my virginity!
Q. Hi I am 14 years old and I feel Im getting to that age where I think I should lose my virginty. I don't have a boyfriend or anything, but I really wanna not be a virgin anymore. Any advice? StIlLaViRgInNY...
A. 4 July 2006: Virginity is a most specific asperation of our lives.
Don't let others make you feel insecure because of this, you obviously have a lot of self respect (Pride).
I know of girls 30 who are still virgins, it is a very precious aspect of our lives.
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My fiancee is in love with another man...
Q. I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now and we love each other dearly. recently she told me she has feelings for someone else but she loves me and wants to be with me but she feels guilty because she feels this way. We have talked about this ...
A. 4 July 2006: Might be an idea to stop telling her that you love her so much, and showing her that ~ "Actions speak louder than words".
Buy flowers, take her out to dinner.... (read in full...)
Call for moderators to help out with DearCupid!
Q. Hi everyone, This is another appeal for volunteers to be moderators. You get to approve and categorise questions and approve answers. If you could spare say ten minutes a few times a week, then this could be for you! Just add your name in thi...
A. 4 July 2006: Honestly ~ I am not able to promise that I could give the required time per week, but I could pop in from time to time to give an opinion, or check answers
A W...... (read in full...)
Worried about losing my virginity!
Q. Hey im 16 and a virgin and im really worried becuase me and this guy ive been with are ready to take our relationship to the next level and after nearly 3 years im ready but im really worried that its going to hurt or im going to put him off becuase ...
A. 4 July 2006: You are only 16, and you have a right to be worried about losing your virginity!
You obviously have a lot of self respect, but are you ready to undertake the responsibility which may be incurred?
This step might be best postponed for at least 2 ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and want to have sex with my boyfriend. Or do I?
Q. I'm 13 and I keep feeling like I want to have sex with my bf. We've been going out for around 5 months (give or take a bit). We tell each other EVERYTHING and we're best friends. But anyways, all the time I keep feeling like I want to have sex ...
A. 1 July 2006: My dear,
At your age you should be concentrating on your studies to furthur your education!
I do not think this is the right move for either of you to make.
Think who is going to look after you while he is out of the picture???
Finish your e... (read in full...)
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