How can I manage the balance between my relationship with sister and my love life?
Q. I am in a 6 months into a new relationship. We go out on dates pretty often and have even discussed potential out of town trips. I have a sister who isn’t single but her relationship is very unsteady. Whenever she and her mate argue or are feuding ...
A. 22 February 2018: It's a hard balance to get right for sure. I suppose foremost you must always remember that blood is thicker than water - your relationship hopefully will be happy and long-lasting, but may not last forever. However your sister will always be your ... (read in full...)
Ex says he wants to be friends. Why?
Q. Long story short, my ex-boyfriend and I dated for almost a year. We broke up a week ago due to the fact that he got a job offer far away. We both kind of chose not to do long distance and that's that, he leaves in a few months. He texted me today ...
A. 22 February 2018: I think some breathing space before entering into a 'friends' situation would be beneficial. Then, once you are properly over the break up you will have a clearer head to decide whether you want to be friends with him or not, and hopefully a clearer ... (read in full...)
My husband said he would have broken up with me if we weren't married
Q. I had a huge fight with my husband - married 1.5 years but toegthwr 5 years. He just told me that he would be broken up with me if we werent married. I asked him if he really means it and he said yes. Im 6 weeks pregnant so he calls me up just...
A. 21 February 2018: This obviously is devastating to here, but how much of it was said in the heat of the moment because you were fighting? Have you discussed it again since the fight or not? I think you maybe need to sit down and have a talk. If he genuinely wanted to ... (read in full...)
Can I come out of the closet without answering anybody's questions about my sexuality?
Q. I am unsure about my sexuality but right now I think I want to identify as gay. I just now realised that I do not I have a problem with coming out of the closest instead I have a problem with answering the endless questions people will have once I ...
A. 21 February 2018: Do you feel that coming out is the only answer at the moment? If you still feel unsure about your sexuality, wouldn't it be better to hang off coming out until you are sure? Or if you feel you really need to, then are there certain people who you ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him where our relationship is going?
Q. Hi all! Over the years, i find myself returning to this place whenever I’m in the need of a little advice. Hopefully this could be the last time lol... Okay, so I started dating this guy about 4 weeks ago. Totally took me by surprise, becaus...
A. 21 February 2018: I think you need more time, definitely. If someone doesn't speak all day, it is frustrating and can put doubts in your mind - I know, I have been there. But you always have to remember, especially in those early stages, people still have a life to ... (read in full...)
Do I ask a friend to ask another friend why he's ignoring me?
Q. I feel silly asking this, but here goes: I have a friend, whom I'll call A, who I was friends with for decades. Over the last few years something has been up -- he has been avoiding me, and doesn't e-mail or call me. We have a mutual friend, ...
A. 21 February 2018: Agree with other posts here - It's unfair to get another friend involved, as you are asking them to potentially not be entirely truthful about their intentions for asking and it just gets messy and complicated. If you are really keen to find out, ... (read in full...)
Should I try to have a conversation with him about our friendship?
Q. Hello all hope you a doing well this is going to be pretty long but I appreciate all the help I can get ok then So I'm just looking for advice on a situation firstly I'm male and he is also a male to and at the start of the week I decided to take ...
A. 21 February 2018: I agree with the previous response - I think you need to maybe spend more time with the person, as a friend, see what he is like, and try to determine from that what kind of friendship you want with him. It is easy to over analyse situations, but ... (read in full...)
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