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He never responded me so I blocked him. Did I do the right thing?

Q.   Hi all I just want to know that I have done the right thing. Basically, I met a guy new years eve. We struck up a sort of relationship but it had to end because he had to move away, 300 miles, to work. But in the time I was with him I fell for h...

A.   28 March 2011: I think this is actually a very smart idea. Girls can't always wait around for a boy forever. This way you can protect yourself from getting hurt and finally move on from him.... (read in full...)

15 weeks pregnant and very obvious baby bump?

Q.   I am 15 weeks pregnant and already seem to have a very obvious baby bump, is this normal? ...

A.   28 March 2011: its normal, my aunt is only 12 weeks pregnant and she has a very obvious bump too... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing in dumping him?

Q.   Hey y'all, So, uh, I don't normally ask for help, ever, but I just broke up with my boyfriend, Justin, and need help. I broke it off because he told my best friend, Erica, that he loved her, kept on complimenting her..... chest, and asked he...

A.   3 March 2011: Well if you didn't really like him then dumping him seems like a good way to go. Him checking out your best friend and being all perverted didn't help should make it easier to dump him. That is so rude for him to hit on other girls let alone your ... (read in full...)

Is it fair for me to date other girls, knowing full well that whatever feelings I have for them, can never match up to what I felt for the girl I truly love(d)?

Q.   Hi everyone, I'd really appriciate the benifit of everyone's oppinions and experiances on this :) Appologies for the length. The problem started when I developed an unrequited love for a girl across the best part of three years and things didn'...

A.   3 March 2011: You might think that no one can compare to you ex because you have a high standards of expectation. I was in the same situation before. The thing is no one is ever going to be the same you just have to let someone in a give them a chance. Just be ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend accessed my facebook account behind my back...and I am mad at him! How do I approach him about this?

Q.   oh man, okay. so i've been with my boyfriend for a bit above a year now, and i thought i could trust him more than anything. when i logged into my facebook today it said my account had been accessed by someone in the exact same location as where he...

A.   3 March 2011: You can start by asking him if he went on your facebook and if he said yes just explain to him that you don't appreciate him going through your facebook with out you knowing. Explain to him you have nothing to hide you just don't understand why he ... (read in full...)

How can I move on from my ex?

Q.   My ex and I dated for a year, we're both 15, and we broke up 2 months ago. He was the first guy I dated for a long time, and we had sex a couple times. I miss him. I'm not sure if it's that i miss him so much as i miss having someone there for me ...

A.   3 March 2011: Well it's probably hurting you more because he has already move on so fast but there are so many guys out there. You don't have to hook up with anyone if you don't want to. Try talking to other guys in a more serious way. Make it obvious that you ... (read in full...)

Should I just keep going along with it or should I just end it all and stop talking to him?

Q.   So there's this guy a grade above me, and I'm pretty sure he's the one I'm meant for. Okay so maybe not forever, but at least for the rest of my years in high school. Anyway, ever since I moved to my current city (four years ago) I've been totally ...

A.   3 March 2011: Well my best friend is actually going through the same situation.you have two options 1.You can give him a second chance and see where it goes... 2.You have to move on and maybe you'll find someone better. If you stop talking to him for a while ... (read in full...)

Why is this breaking my heart?

Q.   Why is this breakng my heart?. He's nice and he's sweet but sometimes he's a complete jerk. I mean i love him and everything. He goes out of his way to make me happy, but seriously he's 3yrs older then me, i'm 15. He has a major fit when i tel...

A.   27 December 2010: You have to stand up to him. Just say no when he makes you do thing refuse to. If he is treating you like that it only shows he doesn't respect you and NO one deserve that! Stick up for yourself don't let him boss you around... (read in full...)

Does it sound like he likes me?

Q.   There is this guy in one of my classes who I am friends with, and I like him. He is always putting his arm around me, and laying his head on my shoulder, and stuff like that. And whenever we're alone he jokes about how its the perfect time to make...

A.   27 December 2010: It does see like he likes you if everyone think so he most likely does! you go girl keep flirting with this boy and see where you end up! Best of luck(:... (read in full...)

Almost 14 and no relationship experience yet

Q.   I'm 13, 14 in January, and I've never had a relationship. I've never kissed anyone either. All my friends have at least kissed one, and most of my friends are in relationships and are really happy. Is this honestly normal for me to be nearly 14 and ...

A.   27 December 2010: Hey(: Awe that's so cute don't worry if the boy haven't come around it's fine. It's noting bad you still young alot of people haven't been kiss it's okay don't worry your time well happen. Wouldn't you rather want your fist kiss to be with a boy ... (read in full...)

Should I break the silence?

Q.   Hi I was upset with my bf since he cancelled our date to go out with his friends, hence i didnt call him for the past 2 days. I didnt call him/text him. He didnt call me either. He was the one who ignored me to be with his friends, he didnt ap...

A.   27 December 2010: Maybe he's not calling you because he could be busy but that doesn't seem to be the point. It seems like he isn't being very commited in the relationship. He should have already made time to call or text you. He's should know that something is going ... (read in full...)

Scared, pregnant, freaking out and nowhere to go.

Q.   I'm still in highschool. I was with this guy for like a year now. We had sex and we used a condom. But the condom broke. And now I'm pregnant. My boyfriend broke up with me after he found out. Now he's with this girl that was supposed to be my best ...

A.   26 December 2010: I can feel how hard this is on you and you are doing the right thing by Not getting an abortion. I'm so sorry your mom doesn't understand but in time she might come to learn that everything is okay. For right now you are going to have to move in ... (read in full...)

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