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writes:HiI was upset with my bf since he cancelled our date to go out with his friends, hence i didnt call him for the past 2 days. I didnt call him/text him. He didnt call me either. He was the one who ignored me to be with his friends, he didnt apologize for canceling the date nor did he call me for the past 2 daysPlease help me, do i need to call him or can i wait for few more days and see whether he calls me? Reply to this Question
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reader, PM  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 I think you need to call him and tell him that you have an issue with what he did. The mature thing to do when the person you're in a relationship with does something that you don't like is to tell them upfront that you didn't like it.
If you ignore each other, the only thing you know for sure is that you're ignoring each other. You don't know if he's sorry, he might not know you're upset. Call him and tell him.
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reader, pixiegirls +, writes (27 December 2010):
 At this point, there is nothing wrong with calling your boyfriend to see how you both are feeling towards what happened. One of the things that is important in a relationship is being able to communicate when you feel hurt or feel there is something that is becoming a big issue between you both. Waiting each other out to see who will contact who first isn't worth it...and may only cause damage to your relationship.
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reader, Amantha +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Maybe he's not calling you because he could be busy but that doesn't seem to be the point. It seems like he isn't being very commited in the relationship. He should have already made time to call or text you. He's should know that something is going wrong because your not talking to eachother and it is his fault so he should be the one to make the first move. It in a couple of days he still hasn't talk to you. You should call him and see what is going on.
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