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writes:Hi allI just want to know that I have done the right thing. Basically, I met a guy new years eve. We struck up a sort of relationship but it had to end because he had to move away, 300 miles, to work. But in the time I was with him I fell for him. I mean REALLY fell for him. I was so upset when he went. At first he agreed to carry on a LDR with me, but then a week into he changed his mind. He even deleted me off facebook. However, we kept in touch every now and then by email. He would always ask how I was. Then, on my last email to him I admitted to him that I missed him. We both agreed that when he had leave in April he would come and stay with me for the weekend. I was so happy. Then I email him a couple of days later. I get no reply. I ask him if hes ok, I get a very short and blunt reply back. I ask him if hes still coming to stay with me and I have had nothing back at all. Ive been wondering so many things in my head that to be honest none of them really matter any more. I am completely exhausted just from thinking about why he is ignoring me, to the point where I actually couldnt care less.So, today I took that step and BLOCKED him from my phone, email and facebook. This way, he cant contact me if he wanted and I wont be sitting round waiting for him to contact me. I know its kinda drastic but I felt I had no other option. I suppose I just want to know that what ive done is ok? or could i have dealt with this differently? thanks x
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reader, Amantha  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 I think this is actually a very smart idea. Girls can't always wait around for a boy forever. This way you can protect yourself from getting hurt and finally move on from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011): You did the right thing, because you kept yourself safe. Women do not do that enough. Your not just there when he needs a booty call or someone to listen to him. This type of man thinks everything in life is all about him or he wouldn't leave you waiting he would have the guts to just be honest and let you go. Instead he uses you, showing no respect. In short you got a lucky escape...Well done!!! Love to see this sort of strength in women.
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