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How can you tell if a boy is shy or just protecting his feelings?

Q.   Today my crush and I were waiting outside and everyone else had gone in and we were alone and he looked really freaked out and nervous and ran inside. Does he like me or just not want to be with me? Another thing. How can you tell if a boy is prot...

A.   17 April 2011: Alright, well if he didn't originally want to be with you, he would have followed everyone else inside earlier. In my mind, it sounds like he was thinking of making a move. If he was, his emotions definitely got the best of him. So many guys are ... (read in full...)

I just found out I have both types of herpes...should I tell my boyfriend?

Q.   I got a blood test for herpes and have both types even though 3 years ago when I got tested it just said i have type 1, and the doctor did a culture of the sore i had genitally. but, i always thought i had both types, and i guess i didn't until this ...

A.   17 April 2011: I might be younger, but this comes straight out of common sense. Yes! Tell him! It would not be fair to your boyfriend if the Herpes spread to him and caused him pain. He will most likely be a bit nervous, especially if you've already had sex with ... (read in full...)

Does my dream guy like me?

Q.   Hey there! Alrighty, so, I need some help figuring out if my dream guy likes me! He's very confusing; almost like an intersection during the holidays. Anyway, he started a chat session with me on Facebook nearly a year ago. He asked questions about ...

A.   8 April 2011: Thank you guys so much! I appreciate your help, because I came out and told him that I like him. It turns out that he likes me as well! He explained that he was too afraid to tell me, so I'm glad you gave me the courage/boost to find out more. :) ... (read in full...)

Do I have to mistreat people in order for them to stop treating me like crap?

Q.   I'm at uni and i've been hanging around this group of black boys. I'm black myself and i live with all white people. Out of 6 i get on well with 2 who are nerds and they're good decent people. The others are jocks and we don't really hang out with ...

A.   20 March 2011: Well, you could actually seek help, a counselor, or a family member who doesn't have the problem. I was abnormally shy from preschool to sixth grade. I followed the "popular girls" around, trying to score some type of status in the school. I ended ... (read in full...)

I'm not attracted to my girlfriend's body. Should I leave her?

Q.   Hi. I don't know what to do. Please read the whole question before cursing me and telling me what an idiot I am. You can do that after you've read the question. Well, I am not attracted to my girlfriend's body. We've been together for several mont...

A.   19 March 2011: At first, I was going to tell you that you should motivate her. Introduce her to your method of staying fit. Sign her up for special diet plans, and exercise with her. But as I read farther along, I realized that it's best for you to leave her. ... (read in full...)

Do I have to mistreat people in order for them to stop treating me like crap?

Q.   I'm at uni and i've been hanging around this group of black boys. I'm black myself and i live with all white people. Out of 6 i get on well with 2 who are nerds and they're good decent people. The others are jocks and we don't really hang out with ...

A.   19 March 2011: From what I've read, you're "believing before seeing." If that makes sense whatsoever. By noticing an unusual spike in nice behavior from others, coincidentally at the time you lost it, you believe that your new mood is the reason for people ... (read in full...)

Is this real, or am I hallucinating?

Q.   This may be the strangest question in terms of love, but I really would like help! I've gone to my parents, to the counselor, and even my neighbor. They don't believe me! Okay, so let me set the scene; I'm 15, as it should already say on the post. ...

A.   4 March 2011: Thank you soo much everyone! I did go to a medium (or at least I think it was a medium), and they said it was most likely my active imagination. I do live in an older house, and I had them come with some paranormal investigators from a local ... (read in full...)

Baby in June and we need some names!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are having a baby in June and we need some good names for it . I all ready thought of the names Patrick after Patrick Swayze or Morticia after Morticia Addams . But we can't decide. ...

A.   12 February 2011: There are so many names out there! You could name him/her after a favorite celebrity, or maybe even someone in the family, or even a close friend who means something special to you. My middle name was dedicated to a special friend of my mom's who ... (read in full...)

Flirting or just trying to impress the guys?

Q.   Hi, i'm in 10th grade just about 16. there is this guy at my school and for the past months he has been 'joking around'. starting in grade 9 when i first met him, i was in one of his classes and during that class he bugged me and told his friends...

A.   3 February 2011: It sounds like a mixture of both. Truthfully, the guy sounds a bit immature, but every guy has his own style of expressing himself. Some guys talk casually and smile, others hit on the girl, and than other guys pick on her. He wants your attention, ... (read in full...)

How can I look and feel more sexy for my boyfriend?

Q.   I'm 17 and ive been with my boyfriend for around a year and a half, I'm a size 14 but really hate my body, I know my boyfriend loves me and my body but i see him looking at other girls on facebook and stuff, I feel like i cant satisfy him, we hardly ...

A.   3 February 2011: You could just be seeing what you are afraid of...no girl wants to see her boyfriend drooling over other girls because of a few minor flaws in physical appearance. I have a larger body for my age, but it's muscle. If he got with you in the first ... (read in full...)

I don't want our relationship to end on this sour note. What can I do?

Q.   I was in an odd relationship, I dated a wonderful girl for 1.5 years. We lived together, we had great and bad times, but we loved each other. She moved to Georgia after college to be with her family. I stayed in Wisconsin for I had a job and house. ...

A.   3 February 2011: Well, you could keep contact, but only as a friend. Try calling her or sending her an email every couple of weeks to a month, but it would be best to leave any signs of the past relationship to fade away. Bringing it up may get her upset, or give ... (read in full...)

I don't want our relationship to end on this sour note. What can I do?

Q.   I was in an odd relationship, I dated a wonderful girl for 1.5 years. We lived together, we had great and bad times, but we loved each other. She moved to Georgia after college to be with her family. I stayed in Wisconsin for I had a job and house. ...

A.   2 February 2011: Hi, it's definitely clear that you're in a tight situation. I may be young, but I've seen this before in neighbors, friends, cousins, etc. It sounds like you and this woman had a wonderful, strong relationship before she moved. It's the same between ... (read in full...)

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