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Why do I feel so disappointed and whose fault is this?
Q. Why do I feel so disappointed right now and who is at fault? I was supposed to see my bf today, he is in another state at a sports summer camp but came home (a 6 hour drive) today to spend some time with me. We are both teenagers, so we both live ...
A. 25 July 2009: I've had the same problem before whith the mother seemingly stopping him from being with me. What you have to realise is that some mothers dont really care about the girlfriend until they are living with the son. They still see their sons as their ... (read in full...)
What do you think he meant by his comment?
Q. Hey guys what would you say this meant! when a guy says.. "(my names) Nice, but it'll never happen, you know..." One way i think hes saying it will never happen but its the You know... bit tht makes me think if he has feelings but for some rea...
A. 24 July 2009: Hes probably just denying it infront of people because inside he thinks its not possible of happening. If you want it to happen you gotta go ask him yourself.... (read in full...)
He cheated, she's pregnant. Now what do I do?
Q. my boyfriend cheated on me back in april and now this chick is calling me telling me that she is pregnant with his baby. he dont want anything to do with her and she is only talking to me about the situation. what am i suppose to do about this? we ...
A. 24 July 2009: Unfortunately you cant trust either of them, i think the mother of the baby needs to prove he is the father by DNA test otherwise you cannot fully trust she is lying. Then when the results come out you need to decide what you want to do then if the ... (read in full...)
First time sex question!
Q. Hello peeps, I am 25 this year and is currently seeing a 40-year old woman. She is divorced and has one child. We knew each other about two months ago and really hit it off, hence we are currently at this stage. In her marriage, she had mostl...
A. 24 July 2009: To be honest you shouldnt hope too much that your first time is going to be mind blowing amazing stuff. Go into it with no exoectations and do what you and she likes. Afterwards great sex happens by communication and confidence which will only ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to talk to my friend on Facebook?
Q. me and my boyfriend broke up a few months ago, within that time i talked to a guy i had only kissed before (years ago) just catch up, what have you been up to etc my bf then hacked into my facebook and read the messages between us. this didnt ...
A. 24 July 2009: No you werent wrong i do it all the time and my boyfriend knows about this. However i can understand why he would be feeling like you cheated, he has paranoia and its probably made worse that he split with you and then realised he'd made a mistake ... (read in full...)
He's not into showing love on text!
Q. I don't understand my boyfriend, when he sees me he shows all the things that says he is in love with me with me. He stares at me so intensely, holds my hand even in the most uncomfortable position and he tells me he misses me. As soon as he sees ...
A. 23 July 2009: You seem to be picking faults in him because he is a good boyfriend, as long as when you see him he is obviously in love with you dont worry about the texts, there was once a time when mobiles didnt even exist and people had to write letters or ... (read in full...)
14 years old and seeking girl advice
Q. What do girls like in a guy? And what do they like to be told? How do you just go talk to them? What are you supposed to dress like? I gotta over one hundred dollar bottle of diesel and they go crazy over it and are attracted to me like a pack of ...
A. 23 July 2009: You cant force it unfortunately. If the girl likes you she'll like you for who you are not because you've changed yourself for the time being to get her interested. Could you really change things about yourself just so someone would like you? It ... (read in full...)
Why do good looking guys always get girlfriends?
Q. why is it good looking guys always get girlfriends no matter where there are....
A. 23 July 2009: You could say that we were animals really before our brains developed so we still have animal instincts and the whole being attracted to an attractive person means they have good genes and the girl wants their child to have good genes also. However ... (read in full...)
Night attacks from my mind over boyfriends past!
Q. Ok so this was a year ago now. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for seven months when we went to the same uni and i got involved with another man and broke it off with him. That dissolved quickly and by the new semester i was back with my ...
A. 23 July 2009: I have read around and realised i am experiencing a bit of post traumatic stress syndrome which brings on these attacks. Its made worse by my syptoms of bi polar disorder, i think i need proper help and not bad advise from men that dont know what im ... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend, but we want to sleep together and I'm worried about the size of my penis. What should I do?
Q. the girl i liked she said she liked me too but she has a bf an idk what to do. she said that it is ok that we have sex but neither of us have ever done it before. i like her alot an when we do finally have sex i want it to make her like me even ...
A. 23 July 2009: Thats great! All sex does is confuse situations further unless you are in love and the other person feels the same way does sex not complicate but make a relationship better :)... (read in full...)
Night attacks from my mind over boyfriends past!
Q. Ok so this was a year ago now. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for seven months when we went to the same uni and i got involved with another man and broke it off with him. That dissolved quickly and by the new semester i was back with my ...
A. 23 July 2009: Ok so i probably deserve you all being really harsh to me, i know what i did was wrong and i have accepted what he did which yes was to have sex with them. However i cant stop the dreams of what happened in my head. Im not being mean to my boyfriend ... (read in full...)
20 and never had a boyfriend...What am I doing wrong?
Q. i'm 20 and i've never had a boyfriend! I'm ready for one, what am i doing wrong? I am confident, happy and sure i'm not all that looks wise but there's nothing wrong with me either. I go out, socialise, I've dated a bit, had fwb (i found ou...
A. 22 July 2009: You dont need boyfriends you just want the one right? well you need to stop unconciously giving out desperate signals and definately dont talk about how much you want a boyfriend. You need to be independant cause most guys love that! Go out with ... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me or is he just a flirt?
Q. So theres this guy who i've been talking to him for some time now and i always get a vibe that he likes me but, he has a girlfriend... here is the story: I was talking to him for a like month and i was getting a vibe that he liked me. He said he ...
A. 22 July 2009: Well it seems like this guy must suffer from self esteeme issues as whenever he's alone he needs you to talk to to make him feel sexy again or something. You dont want to be a rebound or cheat because you will not win. My boyfriend once told me ... (read in full...)
He tells me he loves me by text but not in person, should I be worried about this?
Q. My boyfriend loves me. He's told me via text. Also when he's drunk. I also know that he wants us to last forever and move in together. But again, he says this through text or when he's drunk. I know he has communiation problems, but why won't he say ...
A. 22 July 2009: I had my boyfriend tell me he loved me a few months in as i had said it to him. A few months later he admitted that he had lied then but definately knew he loved me now. I wouldnt freak out, i think hes being very mature about this and making sure ... (read in full...)
Want to lose my virginity but I'm scared I'll bleed. What should I do?
Q. I'm fourteen, and i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we want to have sex soon. I'm afraid, because if he goes really fast, I'll bleed, and I don't want to bleed all over him, because if y ou're a virgin and you pop ...
A. 22 July 2009: You are just fourteen! I was seventeen when i lost my virginity and guess what i bled everywhere! all over the bed. Yes he went very fast and i wasnt turned on because of the pain. If you still want to do this make sure you tell him to take it slow ... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend, but we want to sleep together and I'm worried about the size of my penis. What should I do?
Q. the girl i liked she said she liked me too but she has a bf an idk what to do. she said that it is ok that we have sex but neither of us have ever done it before. i like her alot an when we do finally have sex i want it to make her like me even ...
A. 22 July 2009: Firstly not trying to be patronising, but trying to be realistic especially because of your penis worries, i think your way too young to 1. have sex and 2. emotionally be ready for the baggage that comes along with it, trust me. You cannot ever be ... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose our friendship, but I want to move on
Q. In January me and the father of my 2 kids broke up- we had been together for 7 years. It was a bad relationship- constant fighting, and cheating. In January he left me for another girl- I didnt even put up a fight because I knew there was no point. ...
A. 22 July 2009: I think if you have a history with someone it is virtually inpossible to still have a friendship and not have any baggaged emotions following you around, with him its probably jealousy. He will never let go of that emotion until you force him to, ... (read in full...)
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