Sex, the messy details
Q. I plan on staying a virgin until my wedding night and I hope to marry a virgin. I'm concerned about what our wedding night might be like. This might sound naive but just how messy is sex without a condom. Is there semen everywhere? What about ...
A. 10 April 2008: As a man who was a virgin and married a virgin, there will be no regrets. There are a lot more virgins out there than these people here know what they are talking about. The reason I know that is because people who are committed to virginity do ... (read in full...)
Any tips for virgins?
Q. ill be honest!!!im a virgin..i havent had sex before..im turning 19 this year...say decide that i wana do it now...how do i start??what position do i start with??what if im not good at it....please help i need all the advice i can get...i dont want ...
A. 10 April 2008: You've made it this long, and I'm sure it seems almost impossible to keep waiting. But, speaking from personal experience, waiting till you're married makes sex incredible. Knowing that she waiting for me makes it that much amazing, and it makes ... (read in full...)
How long does you wait to have sex in a relationship?
Q. Hi everyone! I was wondering if any of you could tell me how long one should wait to have sex in a relationship. For those who are wondering it's been around 6 months and we're both virgins! thanks in advance!...
A. 10 April 2008: Speaking from personal experience, waiting until marriage was the best thing my wife and I did. There are a lot of ingredients that make our sex life incredible, but one big one is knowing that she chose to wait for me. And hearing her say that I ... (read in full...)
Why does he need to look at other women?
Q. why my husband look other female ? and when i catch hem he say i didn't look at other female . what bother me is the lie do u think he miss something ? what i should do help thnax ...
A. 10 April 2008: Though he should be trying to have eyes only for you, he is created to notice beauty in other women...that's how he found you. There is a respectful way to do this, and an disrespectful way.
I suggest you read the book "For Women Only" by Shaun... (read in full...)
My love with my wife's sister!
Q. I am married to my wife 9 yrs back, and have two kids. I love my wife verymuch. It was three years back when my wife was carrying my second kid, her sister stayed with us to help her. During this time, somehow we both liked eath other the way we ...
A. 10 April 2008: You are able to love your wife the way you used to, but you're not allowing yourself to do it. You think after nine years and two kids her sister would be any different?
You have to fix this, and I hate to say it, but you should talk about th... (read in full...)
How can I assure my wife that there is no attraction with my business partner?
Q. I have a female business partner and my wife continually thinks she has a need to be concerned about everything. The partner and I have been together for over 10 years and my relationship with my wife goes back only 3 years. My wife has been burn...
A. 10 April 2008: Women were made for relationship, so they are often uneasy about any potential threat. A lot of little things help, call her throughout the day and tell her that you're thinking about her. Without letting her ask, tell her that she is the woman ... (read in full...)
Is it cheating to masterbate over pictures of your wife's sisters?
Q. Is it cheating because I masturbate over pictures of my wife's two sisters?...
A. 8 April 2008: Any time you allow yourself sexual pleasure form sources other than your wife, than you are stealing what belongs to her AND you. Cheating? Yes. Cheating on your wife and cheating yourself.... (read in full...)
My wife thinks having sex once every 4 months is normal.
Q. I wrote a few days ago that my wife or less than 3 years does not want to have sex with me and I received interesting responses. I spoke with my wife and had one main statement. I am under the understanding that if you love someone and are...
A. 8 April 2008: Talking is taking the first important step, and you have started that. There are several books out there (tame, respectful ones in the Christian circle) that help wives and husbands understand each other's needs.
You may want to try and reiterat... (read in full...)
How much porn is too much?
Q. Hi. I am 37 with two kids. My husband and I have know each other for 16 years and married for 8 years. Recently I've discovered he watches pornography every day via a free internet video. I wouldn't care if our sex life even existed but it ...
A. 8 April 2008: The most important thing you can do in this situation is talk to him. Find out his feelings about your sex life together, ask why he wants to watch that stuff, tell him what you feel about it. If he's watching this stuff and not having sex with ... (read in full...)
My wife is losing interest in sex and I have to beg her for foreplay! Any suggestions?
Q. My wife of 17 years is slowly losing interest in sex. Foreplay now consists of a week or two of begging. When we have sex its great and she seems to enjoy it. It is just so darn infrequent. Please help! Cold Shower Man...
A. 8 April 2008: The most important thing you can do is to talk about it. Talking about sex is one of the most powerful forms of improvement in a marriage. Regardless of why (menopause or whatever), she needs to know how you are feeling and what would make you ... (read in full...)
How do I remind myself not to stare at other women?
Q. How do I remind myself not to stare at other women? My wife refuses to go in public with me because she feels so disrespected. It is an unconscious behavior for me that I always do even when she reminds me not to....
A. 8 April 2008: These habits are easy to fall into and very difficult to leave behind. It's hard, but it is possible. You just have to make a conscious decision to look away every time you find your eyes wandering. One suggestion I once read of was keeping a ... (read in full...)
How do I remind myself not to stare at other women?
Q. How do I remind myself not to stare at other women? My wife refuses to go in public with me because she feels so disrespected. It is an unconscious behavior for me that I always do even when she reminds me not to....
A. 8 April 2008: These habits are easy to fall into and very difficult to leave behind. It's hard, but it is possible. You just have to make a conscious decision to look away every time you find your eyes wandering. One suggestion I once read of was keeping a ... (read in full...)
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