Help! Where did it all go wrong?
Q. I am in love with the sweetest kindest man. He knows I am smitten with him. We sms each other ever other day. I see him at my work as he does consulting for us for the last year. He is 2 years younger then I (42) am. He is obese (150kg) and I am ...
A. 8 December 2009: Hmm...if he likes you, he would at least find time to talk for a few minutes, or calls.
His email...seems like a brush-off to me.... (read in full...)
How do you become an Alpha male?
Q. Alpha males of the great ape species beat up the other males. This is how they become the alpha males. After they've won, they don't worry about getting females. They can chill out and have whatever female they want. There are guys who are con...
A. 8 December 2009: I think you've been reading and taking things on the internet too literally. There's someone wonderful for everyone. ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to his personality but not neccessarily looks, can this work?
Q. I've met a guy who is very far from my usual type, which I'm aware might be a good thing, and would like advice if you think it's something worth working at. I don't have a great relationship history. Without wanting to come across as arroga...
A. 8 December 2009: Initial attraction to looks goes away in time.
A person who loves you and devoted to your happiness (and vice versa) is the most precious thing and most rare thing in the world. Someone who can open up and share his feeling honestly but stil... (read in full...)
Can anything be done for my boyfriend who doesn't last very long in bed?
Q. I've been dating my guy for a few months. We've had sex 6 times, and each time he "finishes " after less than a minute. Until me he hadn't had sex for 4 years, and is 36 years old. How long is normal for this to happen after such a long period of ...
A. 8 December 2009: I agree with satindesire.
If he's considerate, he will help you get there FIRST however many times you desire, and then he gets his turn.
Most of the time, my hubby and I loosely have a rule of thumb that I orgasm at least 3-4 times (finge... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't trust me with his internet passwords
Q. Okay, if this is weird or I'm being irrational, please let me know. My boyfriend and I have been dating each other for four years and have been living together for roughly 3 1/2 years. (Yes, we took things a little fast, but it worked out.) We ...
A. 3 December 2009: I think you need to respect his needs for personal space.
I've been married for a while, and I don't care to know my DH's passwords. He deserves something to call his own, and so do I. If he's going to cheat, there are a million ways he can c... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son!
Q. My dilema is that I am currently 38 1/2 weeks pregnant and I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son. He says he does not want to see anything and will just stay up north during the ...
A. 3 December 2009: I would be very upset if my husband behaves that way.
I think he would be very mad if I don't let him be the first to see/hold the baby. Which was fine with me as I was completely out of it that day.
As for seeing me as a sexual being bef... (read in full...)
Husband has a fetish with my soiled panties!
Q. We've been married 11 years, together 14 years. A few months ago, I discovered by accident that he's been stealing my soiled panties and keeping them in his home office. I just happened to go into his desk to look for the car keys to move one...
A. 3 December 2009: Thank you for all the responses. After a bit of research (eye-opening, I've been sheltered!) and reading the responses here (especially from other women), I've decided that I'd better to take control. Although I have a feeling that he won't do... (read in full...)
Husband doesn't make me feel loved any more...
Q. I'm really depressed, because my husband does not make me feel loved. The question I have, is that what can I do ,if he says he loves me, but I don't feel it. Is the problem in him or in me? What can you do with a man, who says he loves you,and he ...
A. 3 December 2009: I was brought up in a very strict and uncommunicative family so it's hard for me to express my feelings. But the arguments your husband has with you and lack of activities are huge red flags. Those have nothing to do with communication skills but ... (read in full...)
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