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Archived questions from: November, 2023 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

The guy I'm dating is too clingy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

28 November 2023 (F) - I've been dating a guy for the last few months, we've had sex and he was a virgin. I have a history of sexual abuse which I have told him about and told him sometimes I need a bit of space around sex or I feel pushed and suffocated. He said he ...

Controlling & jealous boyfriend and the man I fancy at my local hangout

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

25 November 2023 (F) - I have a boyfriend for 6 years now and while we have a great relationship, his very jealousy and controlling …A few months back I broke it off because of his constant jealousy tantrums…I was also going through some personal family issues (my only ...

I've fallen for an alcoholic

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

22 November 2023 (F) - Hello. I’m at such a loss, I’ve really fallen deeply in love with a man (we’ll call him Larry) who is an alcoholic. I try to tell myself that it isn’t an issue, but deep down I guess it always will be won’t it? I have known Larry for a long tim...

Am I wrong not allowing my family to stay at my house during the holidays?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

21 November 2023 (M) - About 20 years ago, I went low contact with my parents and my older brother. My dad favored my brother and expected me to look up to my brother like you would expect to see on TV. My brother ended up thinking it was OK to go into my bedroom and t...

Partner wants to run off to work party leaving me alone to deal with things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

20 November 2023 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 7 years, last year we went to his holiday party and I had a terrible time, this year comes around and he waits until it’s in less than a month to tell me he’s going to travel for it again. On top of it, we ...

I don't want to raise a lost child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

19 November 2023 (F) - I have two children with my ex husband ..we live in the same house….My ex husband still has feeling for me …2 years back I started seeing someone and I become pregnant …..when I informed my ex …he was okay for me to stay in the house and give birth ...

Should I go with my own flow in regard to relationships and friendships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 376 days ago

18 November 2023 (F) - This is not really romantic relationship advice, but more friendship and life advice I am seeking. I usually come here if I need some real wisdom or advice. I always find myself in situations where I will do much more to hang out with someone or ...

Friends daughter has put me in awkward situation. Do I tell the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

12 November 2023 (F) - I absolutely regret trying to help a friends daughter as she has behaved so poorly! I’m part of an amateur dramatic club - we put on various theatre productions at our local theatre. My friends daughter (19) is currently studying theater make up ...

Should I see a therapist or move out of the area?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

12 November 2023 (F) - I have a 'partner' who I have been 'with' for 30 years, since I was 26 years old. I am now 56, he is 51. I apologise sincerely for the very long post but I am at my wits end and don't know how to summarise things concisely. When we met I was go...

Roommates are moochers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

7 November 2023 (F) - My new roommates are mooches and I don't know what to do. It seems no matter where I live, when I live with someone, I end up losing $ I can not afford to lose. Second to last time was my bad: I was in active addiction, let a practical stranger ...

When will family see its not my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

6 November 2023 (F) - I found out I was pregnant for my daughter Lily last year, when I was 21. I was actually in the process of leaving her dad Anthony when I found out. I met Anthony at a fraternity party at my old college but he wasn't in the fraternity, he just went ...

Why did she randomly change her number

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

5 November 2023 (M) - When I met my so she was seeing a guy just as a hook up. Take note she had been hooking up for 6 years racking up around 600 men. She was dealing with a lot of life trauma and drugs and sex were her distraction from life. Anyway when we first go...

Grandmother of family I'm a nanny for is making things difficullt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

4 November 2023 (F) - Hello, I am writing this to get help in terms of my job. I work as a nanny. I have worked in the field for 10 years. I don't expect any job to be perfect. I have had positions that involved a difficult parent, but have always been able to work out a ...