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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Who do I believe... friend or boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - If your friend for about 1 year said that she slept with your boyfriend and your boyfriend for about 1 year and 3 months swears he didn't, who would you believe?...

He used to be smart and no-nonsense. Now he's a manchild.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

9 September 2009 (?) - I am clueless what went wrong with this guy I dated for a year. He used to be very sensible and even if I wasn't so attracted to him, his being rational, smart and level headed made me fall in love with him thinking I found a man who is unique. He ...

My husband had an affair -- shouldn't I be putting some distance between us while I sort out my feelings?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - We've been married 17 years. My husband had an on/off again affair with a married woman for 3 years. I found out about it. He told had already decided to break it off because it was hurting him. I was in shock at first, screamed, cried, wanted ...

How can I be strong about this and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - did i do wrong in looking in my boyfriends phone? i looked at his text messages.. he texted this one chick i always thought he was screwing around with. told her to get some rubbers, im speechless. i dont wanna think about it. im the saddest girl on ...

How can I show her I don't mind sharing her with my brother?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Hi friends, There is some thing happened in our life. Mine and my wife's. My brother came and stayed with us for 3 months. He was 19 and my wife was 22. She once told me that he is playing around and in a tricky way, as if happens accidentally ...

Can a player settle down so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for the past 3 months now – he treats me really well, he’s a great cook, clean, loyal, has goals in life, promising career, a little overprotective (but that’s ok), independent and most importantly he puts me as his number ...

Is is ever ok to cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so I know it is wrong, but I am asking anyway....Is it ever ok to cheat. I am in a relationship, and have been for the past 6 years. The man I am cheating with is also in a relationship, for the past 3 years. We are together because it is ...

Guys: What goes on in a cheater's mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Does a married man fall in love with the other woman/have feelings for her or do they just go back with their wife and family as if nothing ever happened. I know they have made their choice of going back with their wife but for whatever little ...