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Working in a prison, I've fallen in love with a prisoner

Q.   I work in a prison as a librarian and seem to have fallen for a prisoner. He has told me that he likes me. I just don't know what to do. He's out in 6 weeks and seems very geniune about the possibility of us. I havent given too much away to him as ...

A.   17 October 2010: You should base the future of this on what he ended up in prison for. Petty: Green Light, opposite: Red Light. That's just my opinion :)... (read in full...)

Is it normal to be attracted to older men?

Q.   I'm 18, and for as early as I could remember I've been attracted to older men (40-50). Maybe because of their masculinity and overall maturity. My dad recently told me if he found out I was seeing a man in that age group, he wouldn't approve of it. ...

A.   24 September 2010: True, I don't think I could bear living without the love of my life.... (read in full...)

Why do I bite and scratch during intercourse?

Q.   During sex, I tend to bite my boyfriend's neck and dig my nails into his back. Is there a deeper meaning into what we do to our partners during intercourse, or is it just us reacting to being caught up in the moment?...

A.   24 September 2010: I've never drawn blood, Just to the point of minor scarring the next day. I don't want to hurt him :)... (read in full...)

Is it normal to be attracted to older men?

Q.   I'm 18, and for as early as I could remember I've been attracted to older men (40-50). Maybe because of their masculinity and overall maturity. My dad recently told me if he found out I was seeing a man in that age group, he wouldn't approve of it. ...

A.   24 September 2010: Kenj, you brought up a great point(them dying before me) But I really can't see myself being with a guy my age.... (read in full...)

My husbands touch makes me nauseous!

Q.   I have been married for 22 years. I have remained pretty close to the way I looked when I married my husband. I work very hard at keeping myself fit and looking good. I eat right and workout on a regular basis. My husband is a good man, he works ...

A.   24 September 2010: I'm not exactly pro-surgery, but being that weight causes health risks, so do talk to him about the gastric bypass. Stay away from dieting. Diets don't work. He needs a lifestyle change. Eating healthy, sensible portions, adequate water intake and ... (read in full...)

I am attracted to my wife's younger, sexier sister

Q.   I'm married for over three years now with my wife. I met her 5 years before that. My wife was really good-looking when I met her, but a couple of months before the wedding she began to gain weight, at least 20 lbs. from what I can tell, and most...

A.   24 September 2010: Instead of fantasizing about your sister in law, you should take the time to focus on your wife. Maybe her weight gain came from stress or something more serious. If you really loved her, you'd take a gentler approach such as incorporating healthier ... (read in full...)

I think I'm bi..and I have feelings for my cousins wife!

Q.   I'm 18 and in college..I'm a Muslim so being bi is frowned upon by everyone..it's hard enough having to keep sucha big secret from my friends and family but now I'm having feelings for my cousins wife, they've been married for 3 years now no ...

A.   24 September 2010: I don't think you should tell her, it would just complicate things further. What you should do is not feel bad for being bisexual. It's not something you ca... (read in full...)

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