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I want to wait, so how do I make him shut up about sex?

Q.   my boyfriend is 16 but i have discussed that with him he just turned 16 though nd. he keeps asking me for sex nd. iht'z not apart of my religion(christianity) i know im going to wait no matter what no one says but what do i need to do to make him...

A.   1 December 2008: Maybe the first answerer to this question didn't read your age!!! 10-12 - I'm sorry but what do you expect to come of a relationship with someone so much older. Are you waiting til your sixteen - by which point he will be 20-22 or til you're 18 when ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to not get orgasms during sex?

Q.   Hi! I am 19 years old and since i was 16 i am having sex. I have experienced a lot of sex and generally i think i am good at it. My only problem is that i cant come. The only way i come in sex and i really mean the ONLY way is when me or the other ...

A.   3 September 2008: don't worry I used to have the same problem. But one day it went away. I found it impossible to climaz any other way and the way I learnt to deal with it was not to fake it but just to give my partner a helping hand (no pun intended) and nudge his ... (read in full...)

I feel that if he gets a new phone he's going to hide things from me!

Q.   For some reason I have some weird insecurities. Me and my boyfriend have lived together for the past 8 months and I love it we do almost everything together - because we enjoy all the same things and we have alot of fun doing all those things. ...

A.   3 September 2008: The thing is we do spend all of our time together - we were friends for years before we got into this relationship so we don't ever need to call each other. The only other thing I can think of is that he wants to text his ex who is now a friend and ... (read in full...)

How do I get over the fact that my boyfriend is best friends with his ex?

Q.   Hi, I am into a relationship with someone. I am madly in love with him and so does he love me. The problem is my bfs ex. They were into a relationship for quite a long while. This was long ago. Later they got over it and became good friends ...

A.   3 September 2008: I have this same problem. But the way I see it now is - it's better if you're worried for you to sit down and meet this person - she's getting married so obviously happy and he's with you. Get to know what kind of person she is - my boyfriend got ... (read in full...)

When did you first have a boyfriend/girlfriend - that actually lasted a few months?

Q.   Poll: When was the first time you had a relationship, and what age did you have your first kiss? I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek or peck on the lips type of kiss, I mean a toungue kiss? And when did you first have a boyfrien...

A.   3 September 2008: I was 16 going on 17 when I had my first kiss, just turned 17 when I lost my virginity and both of those things were to my now ex!! I'm 20 now and with someone else. My first relationship last about three months. Not very long! But since then I've ... (read in full...)

She says she still loves me but wants to be single. Is there someone else?

Q.   Hi, ok so 6 weeks ago i went to see my girlfriend and were havin a cuddle and a little talk and i say to her " your my best friend" and she sortof says like thats sweet, and then she says that im her best friend but she says it in that way that you...

A.   30 August 2008: You sound like a very sweet person and I'm sure most girls would love to have you as a boyfriend. Did you two ever argue? Sometimes even little things can fester and cause cracks in a relationship. Maybe there's something she didn't want to talk ... (read in full...)

Found his ex gf's phone number...I think he still loves her

Q.   Found a phone number among my b/f's things that belongs to his ex from 4 years ago. It's a recent number because I purged all of her numbers from his belongings when we moved in together. He took forever to get over her. Why does he have her ...

A.   30 August 2008: He;s with you now - but don't be disheartened - maybe he just doesn't want to lose contact with her. Might seem a bit suspect but just ask him about it and tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable. He should be moving on - you are committed to ... (read in full...)

What kind of conversations are most likely to attract a woman?

Q.   Hi. There is this babe where I work who is really hot (or perhaps she just cycled into work that particular day!). She works off the next corridor. I've seen certain guys hanging around her alot. She laughs at their jokes and seems to like them. I ...

A.   30 August 2008: Just be yourself! And from what I've learnt I like guys to have intelligent conversations and be witty and fun! Thats what I find attractive - not someone you know is just out to get into your underwear!!! Plus I find it always works best to not be ... (read in full...)

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