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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm always thinking about girls and want a girlfriend. I never had a girlfriend before. I starting to get the feeling that having someone to love is the best thing that I can have. I know school and having money is important to have, but I feel like I should find someone to love for the rest of my life. I feel like after I find true love, my life will be perfect. Are these new feelings normal?
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (26 May 2011):
yes i think your feelings are normal, as long as you see a relationship as only PART of your life and you still take an interest in your friends, family, studies, hobbies, work, etc.
don't be so desperate for a relationship that it makes you make wrong choices and tolerate bad behaviour from your partners. but yes, i think that everyone benefits from being genuinely loved and taken care of. try not to be jealous of other people who appear to be part of a happy couple, coz sometimes they are not happy at all but are just settling for what they have got, too scared to be alone
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