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writes: Hi,I am with a man, and I love him and he loves me deeply. But he is very, very sexual. He watches porn all the time and he basically has one of the highest sex drives knows to man.Well, I have this insecurity. I have really small breats and I know he would wish I had bigger breasts. That is his taste.Well my sister is younger and very beautiful and she has really big beautiful breasts.I am afraid when I introduce them he will become obesessed with her and lust after her all the time.IT will be horrible. SHe is also an amazing personality, just like me. BUt maybe even more passionate.Should I just end it now. Becuase it is obvious that it will happen.PS. He wants to marry me.
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reader, HarryFlashman  +, writes (12 February 2010):
Even if he likes big breasts, don't assume that his love for you comes down to a checklist of body parts. It just doesn't work that way. Love is a package deal.
In other words, don't sweat it. You are likely making mountains out of molehills.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou are all so sweet and wonderful. Your responses are very comforting and encouraging. Thank you.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (12 February 2010):
 Please...please...please, do not allow jealousy to rule your wisdom, to rule your choice, to rule your love making. Relationships never evolve around sexual attractiveness, but around intellectual wavelength possess by both.
Good sex never depend upon measurement of sex organ, but upon good vision about sex, if you have or if you possess good vision, then your victory will be written well in advance in your favor. The way you communicate your sex energy, and the way you communicate your love feeling in to words and statement will make great point. I have all good wish for you, being intelligent, and I have reason to believe that your men also possess the same. High sex drive is all good, in love making and it is not threat against love, but favorable for love. Love is feeling of admiration, of acceptance, and of enjoyment. Where as sex is act of pleasure. Please make your good ground from this my post. BEST LUCK.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (12 February 2010):
 Why is he with you if "large breasts are to his taste"? If they truly were, then wouldn't he be with someone who has large breasts? Have you talked to him about this big boob issue, or are you assuming that he thinks this way because he watches porn (where a lot of women may have big boobs)?
I think you should eventually introduce him to your sister, because it's the only way you will know if he will leave you for her. If he's a good guy deep down, he wouldn't cheat on you in the first place, let alone with your sister.
If you truly love him, then you shouldn't just break up over something that hasn't even happened - that's illogical and can backfire.
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reader, called Steve  +, writes (11 February 2010):
 Large beautiful breasts aren't everything... to him! But it sounds like they are to you!
Be thank ful you have breasts that wont drop so quickly, likely to have nicer more sensative nipples and allow you to exercise and perform sport better.
There are many many upsides to smaller firmer more beautiful breasts!!!
Good luck and as caring guy says - if he does prefer your sister he's not worth it anyway!!!
Steve
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (11 February 2010):
 Its maybe only your fear that he maybe turn to your sister because you think she is better in everything than you are aside of bigger breast. But hey" if you say he loves you and he wanna marry you, what do you scared for? you said its obvious that it will happen. it means its not happening yet.
So why have fear? let go the fear and have confident to your self but also be aware and prepared. We have always to remember we can not control anybody's brain and heart. No body knows tommorow we dont know maybe not with your sister but maybe to somebody else but hopefully not. anyway no matter what happen think always that you deserve always the best for you. So cheer up.. I wish you good luck dear...
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (11 February 2010):
 Unless you are willing to live on a Harem or into a long time threesome. You should look for a better man. Boyfriends come and go, sister is forever and she is the one who will always be there for you.
Is odd that he need to look porn all the time. He might need help (a psychiatrists)
You need to love yourself more. A woman is much more than boobies and vagina. A woman is the other half of the man's soul, a woman is his mate, his partner and complement. A woman is much more than an interacting sexual toy.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 February 2010):
There is more to a woman than her breasts. And if he's a good guy, he'll know that and not be interested in your sister at all. You have no idea that it will happen. He loves you. End of. And if he does go with her, then he's not good enough anyway.
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reader, 25225649 +, writes (11 February 2010):
 If he wants to marry you he MUST love you, Talk to your sister tell her how you fell, and ask her not to be to "into him when hes around" and introduce eachother... :D best of luck :D
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