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*ennaf65
writes:what are you supposed to do in a situation where a man runs away scared because he likes you too much and is afraid of committing and getting hurt? this man came back after not talking for a month and not seeing each other for two months to me tell me this, didn't end things with me at all, and told me how happy he was to see me and how much he missed me. he said things might have been better if i didnt leave him alone. now it has been a few days and i have not heard from him. do i try and talk to him and ask him what is going on, or wait? also, is this a possible sign of things ending even though he texted me after seeing me telling me it was great to see me, and when i talked to him the next day he seemed happy to talk to me? i need some answers before i lose my mind.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 What are you supposed to do...? You are supposed to doubt his sincerity, and to avoid giving him the chance of stringing you along.
If someone really likes you " too much " he runs TO you, not from you, and he is not afraid of committment of getting hurt.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 April 2011):
You always ditch guys like this. I never ran away from a girl I liked, neither did any of the decent guys I know. A real man who's secure in himself and has respect for you won't run away and treat you like a commodity. He'll run after you!
This guy is useless as boyfriend material. He clearly has come major issues, or he's hiding something (like he has a girlfriend elsewhere). Move on from him before you do lose your mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): Its not very clear whats going on to be honest hes giving good signals saying it was good to see you.
Why did you not see or hear from him - did you not contact him in that time? Did he ignore you if you tried to initiate contact?
You will have to explain it all in more detail before anyone can help
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): I would too. This guy doesn't seem to know what he wants, in terms of a woman or a relationship. As a result, you're in uncertainty and in limbo and with a little drama. He needs an ultimatum. Either he's with you or you go your separate ways. I think he's stopped to question his feelings for you, which is good, as it seems like he has feelings.But now what does he want to do with those feelings? Also does he have any prior relationship issues, or deals with women that cause him to be well, mr looney tune?! Good luck.
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