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Hooked up with my ex again and we were all "in love"... But haven't hard for 2 texts and 2 calls

Q.   Ok, I ran into my ex of 2 months in the bar Thursday night. I asked him how he was and he said fine and kept walking. I was like screw it I'm done w/his confusing on-off BS. He ends up texting me an hr later asking where I was and what I was doing. ...

A.   16 October 2006: sounds to me like you need to give him some distance, if you keep hounding him all the time he will either get fed up or if nothing else he will not be that bothered to call or text you as you are doing all the leg work. Give him somethin... (read in full...)

I'm 23 he's 35 but I can't tell my parents as they will think he is too old for me!!

Q.   Hi I have started seeing a guy i am 23 and he is 35, the age difference does not bother us but i can't tell my mum and dad as i know that they will think that he is too old for me! We are mad about either and we have been for over year and we...

A.   16 October 2006: If you two have only recently got together I would let the dust settle a bit.a couple of years here and there really doesnt make that much of a difference on his age.let some time pass see how it all works itself out and if its serious then as the ... (read in full...)

She talks about marriage, but Im worried it could lead me going astray!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years. She's already starting to think seriously about marriage, but I'm not sure. I know I love her, but she's the first girl I've ever dated, and I can't help being physically attracted to ...

A.   1 September 2006: The grass is always greener on the other side - NOT. A lot of guys get these feelings I am afraid, you really need to think about how you feel for your current girlfriend. Why is she not doing it for you sexually? Sounds to me like a b... (read in full...)

My husbands friend flirts with me, could there be a real attraction?

Q.   Hi. I'm really unsure as to how my husbands friend feels towards me. He's single. He keeps eye contact and flirts with me when he's drunk. Every time I see him, he makes comments about my clothes, not bad or good, just comments on my boots or coat ...

A.   1 September 2006: Dont do it, I know you are thinking about sleeping with this guy, its a real turn on because its the forbidden fruit. why dont you focus on your husband direct that attention and passion towards him. He doesnt sound like that much of a friend... (read in full...)

My fiancee is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with life. Please help

Q.   Hi there. I need help on how to get through what I'm going through. My wife-to-be is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with work or life. Please help...

A.   1 September 2006: MY girlfriend and I have just broken up after 16 years, I know what you are feeling trust me. if u have a crushing pain in your chest and find it intolerable to carry on go and see your Doctor, he can prescribe you some Diazepam in the short te... (read in full...)

What nicknames do guys like to be called?

Q.   What nicknames do guys like to be called? Girls get called names like babe and sexy etc. But what do guys like to be called? Thanks...

A.   1 September 2006: I used to like to be called Sexy or Gorgeous, Sweetie can sometimes work as well.... (read in full...)

We couldnt have kids, I went back to the affair for comfort, now its all over ...

Q.   Hi, I have recently broken up with my girlfriend of 16 years. IT is mostly my fault. I had an affair sometime ago in the past eight years ago to be precice. we patched things up after that and have been pressing ahead since. back in 200...

A.   31 August 2006: Hi Guys, Thanks for your responses, some are a little hard but have a certain amount of truth in them. what I failed to mention was that I did try over the year to make things better with my girlfriend and we tried IVF. She dropped the IVF b... (read in full...)

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