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writes: I’m 17 years of age and I cannot get a teacher at my collage out of my head. I’m really confused because I don’t have a physical attraction to him in any way, I just really admire him a lot but sometimes I think I have a crush on him because I’m think about him all the time and when I see him I fill up with joy inside. The trouble is I don’t what to feel this way about him and I don’t want him to think I have a crush on him but the more I try to make out that I don’t have a crush on him the more I make it seem as though I do have a crush on him… even though I don’t (if you understand what I mean). I have tired to look at the negatives about him and the things I don’t like about him but it’s not working… How can I get over this??? (And don’t say give it time). Who ever said having a crush (or what ever I’m feeling for him) is fun, was wrong because its not… it just takes over your life and makes you look and feel stupid!!!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): i feel you. honestly, the best way to get over him is to find a new guy. try to join a school club or something and find new guys. maybe a political science club, medical club, lol i don't know, but a club that is interesting to you. i'm sure that way you will find many guys that are interested in a field which you are in. and who knows maybe with one of these guys your friendship can develope into something more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2006): I can't transfer out of his class because they are short staffed for that subject and he’s the only one that teachers some of the units I have to complete anyway! If I did transfer they would want to know why? ... I cant exactly say its because I think I have a crush on my teacher! But thanks for yor advise anyway xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2006): Alternatively, try transferring out of his class.
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