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writes:Hello i am an 18 year old male. Whenever I have sex, Afterwards I always feel guilty and disgusted. Howver, having said this. I am quite a deep thinker and am wondering what this could all be. When I say I am a deep thinker i see things like gurus and spirits. Now you might think I am weird but seroiusly I really am not. But I you can feel me i get these weird and wonderful feelings and feel as if I am not here in the world sometimes and like I drift off into another world Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
How were you brought up and what are your beliefs. If you're feeling this way, there is a reason. Do you feel that you're being used, or do you feel that it's wrong? Maybe you'd be happier with a girlfriend and in a relationship? You need to look at yourself and your upbringing. Hopefully you'll find the answer.
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (4 October 2009):
 Um ok.
I dont know exactly what your problem is, nor what you are trying to get at or why. You say you feel guilty and disgusted after having sex, but one key element I am missing here is the reason. As a free thinker and if I had any feelings the likes of which you discribe I have to ask myself a very fundemental question. "Why?"
Ignoring your deepthinker guru spirit thing. You need to ask yourself why it is you feel the way you do. You need to analyse and isolate what it is your are having a problem with. Is it some of the pparticular acts you are doing that are giving you this feeling? If so why? Or is it sex as a whole? And if so why? Without pin poitning what is wrong you will just be wondering around with emotions you aren't dealing with.
HonningKanin
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reader, charlie p +, writes (4 October 2009):
Well this depends on what exactly you feel about sex that makes you feel disgusted. Have you been able to figure it out? If you sleep around with girls that do the same the answer may lie more there than with any spirits...
So what is the specific problem that makes you feel so low?
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