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My daughter just turned 15 and is having sex!

Q.   dear cupid and everyone here, I have a daughter who has just reached 15 years old last month. She has just admitted to me that she and her boy friend have already had sex. I was terribly shocked and very very afraid and worried that maybe sh...

A.   5 January 2008: Give it a few more days and then give her a pregnancy test. My period comes late every now and then. I suggest you do talk to her and let her know the consequences of having sex at such a young age. Dont try and stop her from having sex by yelling ... (read in full...)

Is he or is he not...going to strip clubs? Should I ask him...again?

Q.   I have recently found messages on my boyfriend's friend's pages of whom he is very close with and hangs out with when he is not with me. the messages were from girls asking them if they wanted to go to strip-clubs with them for a night out. i aske...

A.   3 January 2008: You need to stand up and argue in what bothers you; especially 'your' mans going to strip clubs. He shouldnt be doing that- if he is. Either way, I suggest you get an answer out of him and/or maybe talk to his friends. Trust is earned not given ... (read in full...)

She told me not to tell anyone, she was having lunch with a male friend..what's the big secret all about?

Q.   hi there, my girlfriend is currently in Durban on holiday with her family, i phoned her earlier, and she said she needed my permission for something, so she asked me if she can go out for lunch with 1 of her male friends on Friday, so i said yes she ...

A.   3 January 2008: I think the fact that she asked you and 'you' know where she's going then you shouldn't be worried. When she gets back just ask her how everything went and Im sure she'll calm your nerves about anything. She probably just doesnt want her mother to ... (read in full...)

I have a lump bigger than a grape in my vagina and I'm really scared, what could it be?

Q.   im so scared and i have tried to research this but don't know what is wrong with me, can somebody please help!! My vagina has been swolen and sore for the past week or so, and i got green thick discharge the other day too. I thought i had a ...

A.   31 December 2007: Prolly a bartholin cyst. Ive had 2 before. It will either heal on its own (unlikely) or you will have to get it drained which is a bit painful but is very relieving. Conact me for any questions. Do online research on bartholin cysts- very ... (read in full...)

I fancy my husband's nephew, and he reciprocates, nothings happened, what should I do?

Q.   My husband and I move in with his relatives and his nephew already caught my eye, like an instant casting spell. True this is not a good sign...but the plot thickens or the sexual tension or chemistry is there. Sure the nephew comes around more oft...

A.   31 December 2007: Hope you make the right decision not to do anything with him. Think about your husband and how hurt he will be when he finds out. You and your husband made vows and you should stay true to those. Think about all the wonderful times you and your ... (read in full...)

I slept with someone else everytime I temporarily broke up with my boyfriend..is this okay?

Q.   i broke up with my boyfriend because we always fight and argue a lot. I hate the fact I did. Anyway, when we broke up...I slept with someone else because I thought it was really going to be over this time and I should move on. But a couple d...

A.   31 December 2007: I am so sorry but I think what you did was wrong. How would you feel if he did that to you. I think when you break up with someone you love it takes more than a few days/weeks to find someone else to have sex with. If you can do something like ... (read in full...)

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