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36-40,
*weetkitten
writes:I have a problem everytime I have sex I never climax. I can only climax though oral or playing me playing with my clit. The sex be really great I can feel him inside with so much plesure but still can't climax if him or I dont with clit, is there's something wrong with and how can I climax with just intercouse Reply to this Question
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reader, misswalston +, writes (13 May 2009):
 Try talking dirty to each other. It works for me. I loooove to talk, and it turns me on to the point where I have an orgasm everytime. Yes it is true, a lot of women do not experience orgasms just through intercourse, but never give up. Does he kiss on your nipples, neck, caresses your body? Try these things and see what happens, if he is on top of you, push him in deeper, open your legs up wider, girl you do what you have to to get that orgasm!!!! Let me know what happens!!!!!
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (13 May 2009):
 GrimmReality has got a decent point.
Many women claim that they cannot have an orgasm through intercourse. Why the fixation?
If a woman can achieve orgasm through masturbation, then during intercourse she clearly needs to attempt to recreate the same rubbing/manipulation sensation that gets her there.
I'm lucky, in that my current and past sexual partners have climaxed during intercourse, some took a while, but most within minutes, and one girl in about ten seconds (she was awesome. Leo in London, I still love you!).
I stay up in the 'press up' position, and try to thrust and grind the base of my penis against my girls' pubic bone and clitoris.
If she also tries to get a good rub going against me, we are bang in business.
It is a little hard to kiss and have really close intimacy, but in minutes you are so out of control that neither cares. The mind bending orgasm makes up for it.
It is also easy to hit her g-spot this way.
A little effort from both parties is the solution.
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (13 May 2009):
GrimmReality has got a decent point.
Many women claim that they cannot have an orgasm through intercourse. Why the fixation?
If a woman can achieve orgasm through masturbation, then during intercourse she clearly needs to attempt to recreate the same rubbing/manipulation sensation that gets her there.
I'm lucky, in that my current and past sexual partners have climaxed during intercourse, some took a while, but most within minutes, and one girl in about ten seconds (she was awesome. Leo in London, I still love you!).
I stay up in the 'press up' position, and try to thrust and grind the base of my penis against my girls' pubic bone and clitoris.
If she also tries to get a good rub going against me, we are bang in business.
It is a little hard to kiss and have really close intimacy, but in minutes you are so out of control that neither cares. The mind bending orgasm makes up for it.
It is also easy to hit her g-spot this way.
A little effort from both parties is the solution.
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male
reader, GrimmReality +, writes (13 May 2009):
 Can I make a suggestion?
Take it or leave it...but It has worked for me as I had a girlfriend who experienced this also and I made an adjustment...
The lift...
rather than deep penetration, if participating in missionary, If the man lifts his body(and his member) so that each stroke can touch closer to the clitoral area, an orgasm may somewhat more achievable.
Believe me, if you are worried that your man may be offended, don't be. any man worth his family jewels should be willing to listen and be fully prepared to undertake a mission to pleasure his mate.
Im telling ya, the lift...THE LIFT!!!
HAVE HIM TRY IT!
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female
reader, k_c100 +, writes (13 May 2009):
 A lot of women cannot climax through intercourse, it is totally normal and nothing you should be worried about. Many women just have to accept they will never have an orgasm through sex because it just wont happen.
There are certain positions that you could try to make it feel more intense, but I dont think you should push for this as you will end up feeling even more frustrated. When the man is penetrating you deeply then it is more likely for you to climax but still in some cases it just doesnt work.
If you are still enjoying sex then dont worry, just enjoy how it feels and be happy with that!
I hope this helps!
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female
reader, betty_black +, writes (13 May 2009):
 I'm exactly the same! I don't understand it! lol. Anyone help??
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