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I'm afraid he'll say no if I ask him out and ruin our friendship

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Question - (9 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I Like this guy we all call him Danny. Me and Danny have been best friends for like 5 1/2 months now. I have very stonge feelings torwads him and I want to be more then friends. The problem is we sit next to each other in alot of are classes and we have lots of inside jokes. So the deal is Im afraid if I ask him out he will say no and it will reck are friendship. Yet I want to live in the moment and go for it but my friends say its a bad idea. If you guys could help me I would greatly apperciate it also all let you all know what happened based on your comments thanks. AND PLEASE HELP!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010):

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Thanks for the comments everyone but sadly i wont be inviting you all to are wedding any time soon. JK its just he said he doesnt like me like that so much for living in the moment! oh well love just wasnt on my side this time guys thanks anyway for the help. :(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010):

If you want to go for it, ignore your friends saying that it's a bad idea and just go for it. Tell him how you feel. If he feels the same way then great but if not try and put it behind you both.

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A female reader, Blod United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2010):

Blod agony auntIf you never try, you'll never know. Ask him, if he says yes then great! If he says no then no need to worry. Tell him that you want to stay friends and if you could just forget about it. There's no reason why asking someone out should affect your friendship. If there's any embarrassment it'll blow over, you'll move on and find someone else. There's no harm in trying. So do what you feel is right and live in the moment. That's the only way you get anywhere in life. And you never know, he could say yes. Good Luck. X

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2010):

I would say go for it. He likes you, so maybe he fancies you. But you'll never know unless you ask, will you? It would be a shame if you didn't and never found out.

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