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A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Here the deal, My husband and I have been separated for over a year we decided to make things work. So we have talked about moving in together. The point is nothing has change. he promised he has. he has job security issues. He gets really depressed if he is not working or doesn't have weed. If he is working he is cool. but what has me writing in today is this. We have a little girl together, im doing the best i can by myself, he was paying me 120 month for her care. that stop two months ago. Reason being cause his car went down. So i told him don't worry about it. Yet now he gets paid, and i gets nothing but he still want sex. he said he didn't want a child until he was stable. i wasn't on the pill and how many abortion i was going to get. I have sole custody, I take good care of my daughter, and his son when we were together. Christmas came and gone and he offer me twenty dollars, but yet he went out to a party and bought drinks. Didnt get his daughter nothing for Christmas. Same with New Years he bought drinks and gone ask me if i needed money. (In my head I'm like) Im like you suppose to pay me 120 a month.Im like at the end of my rope.When i bring it to his attention he gets mad and say what do want from me. My question is do he see what he is doing? All i want is help this is why i haven't move in with him yet because these are the same issues we had living together. Today i talk to him and he like "who are you to judge me dont call me no more. What should I do?

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