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writes:Dated this man for 2 years. He's bored with me already. He prefers gym over dinner with me. He prefers to chat online with random girls over chatting with me. p/s: we don't live togetherShould I put up with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (15 July 2012):
 Why on earth would anyone put up with this????
No, you should NOT. What you should do is leave him to his gym membership and online girls, and find something better for yourself... because you surely deserve it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 July 2012):
You should be bored with him, given his behaviour. And no, you shouldn't put up with it. Get rid of him, and find a guy who will treat you far better and actually shows interest in you.
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reader, IamJess +, writes (15 July 2012):
 First of all, nobody should be putting up with this.
The gym thing not so bad, because he's caring for his body, but if he ditches you ALL the time for the gym and never takes you out, that is a problem and he's not appreciating you like he should.
The fact he's talking to random girls online and not even considering you, or talking to you, is even worse. Two years is a long time to spend with someone and for it to turn sour like this and possibly end it like nothing happened, would be bad. But you can't let him continue to do this to you, I'd end it because its obviously not going anywhere, and if he's doing this, he doesn't respect you or the relationship you're apparently in, he's acting single anyway, so make him single.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 July 2012):
 Why should you put up with it?
I certainly wouldn't. Maybe he is pushing YOU to be the dumper not the dumpee.
I don't think it comes down to him being bored with you, I think it comes down to him having other priorities and being selfish.
I'd let that one back in the pond.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (15 July 2012):
 Well its a clear sign you need to get done with this relationship and move on in life..
This man seems to be keeping you in the sidebar and doing everything else,using you as a backup!doesn't seem right at all..I don't think you deserve a man like this..
Talk to him staright up and tell him you have had enough and your not going to tolerate this anymore so its better we break up..
Good luck
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